Your favorite way to gauge how fat you're getting?
1. Tape measure around my belly.
2. Scale.
2. Scale.
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Goal clothing size?
I’m about 5’6” and 223 lbs, 51” belly. I’m trying to get to at least 250-260 lbs, 270-280 would be even hotter but probably unrealistic, 56-57” belly.
I think about the clothing siz...
I think about the clothing siz...
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Lack of fashionable clothes for men
I’m about 5’ 5/6” and 223 lbs. I was a powerlifter with my neck growing to 19”. I need a 19 1/2 - 20 collar and 32-33 sleeve. At that size the body is usually way too big. The shirts I have...
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Wearing no pants/underwear
T shirt and cotton gym shorts are my preferred stay-at-home attire. Occasionally I’ll go without skivvies (boxer briefs) under the shorts. Sometimes I wear just skivvies. I always wear skivvies t...
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Body hair/hairy bellies, hot or not?
Agree 💯 I’m hairy and hate it, and regularly shave my upper arms and shoulders. My husband occasionally says “your back needs to be done”, i.e. shaved. Then I’ll do my front. I like...
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What are all your kinks and fetishes?
I’m a gay male, so these apply to other men, gay or straight:
Crisp dress shirts, especially with a button-down collar.
Uniforms especially police.
Bellies.
Muscle bears w/ a belly in sn...
Crisp dress shirts, especially with a button-down collar.
Uniforms especially police.
Bellies.
Muscle bears w/ a belly in sn...
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Where did your fat go on your body?
I’m experiencing that too.
Plus of course my belly and moobs, happily.
Plus of course my belly and moobs, happily.
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Does anyone enjoy aging ?
No. I’m 67 and experiencing some problems, unrelated to my weight, that I never thought I would.
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I’m thinking of learning to bloat and/or inflate
Are they the same? I would love to see my belly blow up. I understand that I can extend my belly to consume more food and create a cycle of eating more, gaining more, expanding more, etc.
Do I ...
Do I ...
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Sucking-in
I had to unlearn sucking in my belly. I still catch myself doing it but for the most part I consciously let it hang out.
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Does being fat enhance the experience of the fetish?
For me it’s very erotic. I’m gay and have liked fat men (read fantasized sex and masturbation material) for the longest time. I actually feel sexy being fat.
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Busty guys
My moobs are starting to grow. I was a weightlifter and had a pretty defined and solid chest. Since I stopped working out I lost some muscle and gained a lot of fat. I gain muscle and fat fast, but...
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I put butter in my coffee
There, I said it … I put butter in my coffee along with heavy cream or light cream.
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Mental health and appetite
Yes, it happens to me too. When I’m depressed or stressed I lose my appetite. I may be genuinely very hungry, with my stomach rumbling and hunger pangs but I can’t eat. I just ride it out. ...
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What was your point of no return?
Recently when I decided I’m not going back; recently when I gave away my size 42 pants and jeans; when I decided I want to wear size 46-48 and hit at least 250-260 lbs (I’m about 5’6”); whe...
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Getting man boobs
It was probably when I passed 210 (I’m about 5’6”) that I started growing moobs. They’re not big, and with a shirt you really can’t tell but my chest and underarms are getting fatter and ...
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Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?
I haven’t been formally tested or diagnosed but all my life I’ve had the markers and behaviors of Level One Autism. I have two nephews who are also on the spectrum. Oddly, I can read body langu...
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Your passion/ favorite hobby
Playing guitar and (a bit of) bass; weight lifting; reading and learning: science, history, mythology of different cultures; food and cooking, and of course eating. Lol
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Gay men in gainer community
I don’t know if all fat gay men deliberately gain but at least on Grommr there are 10s of 1000s of gay men who are gainers, maintainers, encouragers, admirers, feeders, feedees and every permutat...
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Low libido from antidepressants
I’m on bupropion, busprione and lamotrigine for bipolar depression; metoprolol for blood pressure; and oxycodone and pregabalin for chronic back pain (failed lumbar fusion surgery).
So yeah, ...
So yeah, ...
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