I don’t know where this kink came from, though I have an idea. Suffice to say I can remember as far back as puberty and having my first orgasm that I’ve had this fetish.

I’m usually reluct...

As someone else said, baby steps. This is a journey with one step forward, two steps back, another step forward, another step back … y’know.

It’s got to be 10-12 years I’ve been gai...

I do, I’m not ashamed to admit it. I see pics of myself usually clothed because I love getting dressed, particularly in nice dress slacks and a crisp dress shirt. When I see how snug they are, sh...

1. Tape measure around my belly.
2. Scale.

I’m about 5’6” and 223 lbs, 51” belly. I’m trying to get to at least 250-260 lbs, 270-280 would be even hotter but probably unrealistic, 56-57” belly.

I think about the clothing siz...

I’m about 5’ 5/6” and 223 lbs. I was a powerlifter with my neck growing to 19”. I need a 19 1/2 - 20 collar and 32-33 sleeve. At that size the body is usually way too big. The shirts I have...

T shirt and cotton gym shorts are my preferred stay-at-home attire. Occasionally I’ll go without skivvies (boxer briefs) under the shorts. Sometimes I wear just skivvies. I always wear skivvies t...

Agree 💯 I’m hairy and hate it, and regularly shave my upper arms and shoulders. My husband occasionally says “your back needs to be done”, i.e. shaved. Then I’ll do my front. I like...

I’m a gay male, so these apply to other men, gay or straight:

Crisp dress shirts, especially with a button-down collar.
Uniforms especially police.
Bellies.
Muscle bears w/ a belly in sn...

I’m experiencing that too.

Plus of course my belly and moobs, happily.

No. I’m 67 and experiencing some problems, unrelated to my weight, that I never thought I would.

Are they the same? I would love to see my belly blow up. I understand that I can extend my belly to consume more food and create a cycle of eating more, gaining more, expanding more, etc.

Do I ...

I had to unlearn sucking in my belly. I still catch myself doing it but for the most part I consciously let it hang out.

For me it’s very erotic. I’m gay and have liked fat men (read fantasized sex and masturbation material) for the longest time. I actually feel sexy being fat.

My moobs are starting to grow. I was a weightlifter and had a pretty defined and solid chest. Since I stopped working out I lost some muscle and gained a lot of fat. I gain muscle and fat fast, but...

There, I said it … I put butter in my coffee along with heavy cream or light cream.

Yes, it happens to me too. When I’m depressed or stressed I lose my appetite. I may be genuinely very hungry, with my stomach rumbling and hunger pangs but I can’t eat. I just ride it out. ...

Recently when I decided I’m not going back; recently when I gave away my size 42 pants and jeans; when I decided I want to wear size 46-48 and hit at least 250-260 lbs (I’m about 5’6”); whe...

It was probably when I passed 210 (I’m about 5’6”) that I started growing moobs. They’re not big, and with a shirt you really can’t tell but my chest and underarms are getting fatter and ...

I haven’t been formally tested or diagnosed but all my life I’ve had the markers and behaviors of Level One Autism. I have two nephews who are also on the spectrum. Oddly, I can read body langu...