There, I said it … I put butter in my coffee along with heavy cream or light cream.

Yes, it happens to me too. When I’m depressed or stressed I lose my appetite. I may be genuinely very hungry, with my stomach rumbling and hunger pangs but I can’t eat. I just ride it out. ...

Recently when I decided I’m not going back; recently when I gave away my size 42 pants and jeans; when I decided I want to wear size 46-48 and hit at least 250-260 lbs (I’m about 5’6”); whe...

It was probably when I passed 210 (I’m about 5’6”) that I started growing moobs. They’re not big, and with a shirt you really can’t tell but my chest and underarms are getting fatter and ...

I haven’t been formally tested or diagnosed but all my life I’ve had the markers and behaviors of Level One Autism. I have two nephews who are also on the spectrum. Oddly, I can read body langu...

Playing guitar and (a bit of) bass; weight lifting; reading and learning: science, history, mythology of different cultures; food and cooking, and of course eating. Lol

I don’t know if all fat gay men deliberately gain but at least on Grommr there are 10s of 1000s of gay men who are gainers, maintainers, encouragers, admirers, feeders, feedees and every permutat...

I’m on bupropion, busprione and lamotrigine for bipolar depression; metoprolol for blood pressure; and oxycodone and pregabalin for chronic back pain (failed lumbar fusion surgery).

So yeah, ...

Men’s Wearhouse has a line of suits and jackets called “Executive” … for us fat guys. 🤣🤣🤣 Used be referred to as portly.

I haven’t but I hope at some time I can. I’m trying to learn to c*m by playing with my nips, but no luck yet. I would love to be sitting on traffic, for example, rub my belly and c*m in my skivvi

My question is do you make being trans the first thing you mention whether it is pertinent to the subject? To be blunt, do you announce it, are you “in your face” about it? When I first ca...

I’ve always been insecure about my looks, though tbh I’m not bad looking. I’m short, fat, bald (shaved), and bearded. Think of Jason Alexander with a beard and shaved bald.

Nevertheless t...

I’m only lately open about my kinks. I was always embarrassed because I’d think people would laugh and say “What? What a nutcase!”’ But I’m learning that there are a lot of all kinds o...

If a person is respectful, interested in and supportive of our kink, and not a troll, imo that person is welcome. I’m on Grommr, which has skinny guys, average guys, even muscle monsters who are...

Ok, I’m sure this isn’t going to be popular but it’s just my opinion since the door was opened …

I’m gay but I mention it only when it’s relevant to the conversation. I’m not a tra...

I love touching and feeling my belly, especially when I’m stuffed and it’s distended. I love cradling and rubbing it. I do this too when
I’m falling asleep or waking up. I love holding it.

I’m just about 5’6”, if that, but I often get called “big guy” or hear something like “… because/since you’re a big guy …”. I know they mean fat, which I love hearing.

I think it’s because I don’t want to be small. I want to have some size. I’m just about 5’5”-6” and feel small and shrunken even at 200 lbs.

Ironically I’m also a bit insecure abo...

This is partly from getting fat and partly from back surgery and loss of flexibility. After dropping a deuce I have to use the handheld shower head on the stream setting to clean myself. I can’t...

I have meds for bp (not related to the weight) and anxiety that kill my libido. But there are times, especially when I’m pigging out that I get really turned on and have to masturbate.