LoraDayton


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LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
It's almost like because this form is full of people who don't understand boundaries. It's almost like people have to constantly remind others that their actual human beings. What a shocker!

I'm...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Where did I judge you? I'm simply asking you questions. Based on your own information that you provided.

You yourself said initiated your conversation with no other information that that you cal...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
I didn't say you couldn't. I literally said that ascribing your health to your size is by definition fat phobic. Size is not a determinant of health. And it really should make you think twice that ...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
A majority of fat fetishists (*particularly* ones who have never been fat) are inherently fatphobic and/or center their fetish around it. So yeah. The parallels aren't remotely surprising becau...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Using the term "healthy sized" is actually fatphobic. Size is not determinant of health.

Y'all I'm begging you to look into this and start understanding just how insidious it is.

I don't know...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
The point is that the story itself it fatphobic. Eg that fatness is equal to internalized self hatred. It's irredeemably bad.
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
It is *horrifically* fatphobic. The writer literally uses a fat person as a analogy to processing internalized homophobia.

Even just using a fat suit on a non-fat actor is inexcusably fatphobic...
LoraDayton 2 years
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audiobooks for feedist fiction
You can make it a video and still put it on da. There are a few audio makers that do that.
LoraDayton 2 years
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loving your body in public
Honestly, take a lot of what they say with a grain of salt. Of course people who truly are just comfortable as they are exist in public and are also members here, but many aren't even if they say t...
LoraDayton 2 years
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has anyone really met their better half here?
I met someone who very well could have been. Unfortunately I was deeply betrayed. So I'm indifferent at best to finding a life partner here or really anywhere. But I'm definitely still interested i...
LoraDayton 2 years
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this is wrong
What a way to contradict yourself. It is a lot more than simple diet that affects anyone's weight whether surplus or deficit. If you understand the pressures of someone's decision either way, t...
LoraDayton 2 years
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this is wrong
I have serious doubts it's satire. Yikes.
LoraDayton 2 years
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too old?
It's mostly that many people don't know how to do it. It's just like any other sexual encounter. It requires discussion, consent, tastes, preferences, etc. And also learning that as you get old...
LoraDayton 2 years
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big chapter dump or space it out?
Hiccupx has it right. The way the platform is built means you have to kind of experiment with strategy, and adjust that strategy as you build an audience. I don't have many stories here, this just ...
LoraDayton 2 years
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gaining movie- sci-fi,horror
Oh that might be a fun idea! I've had a bit of a feedist zombie apocalypse story bouncing in my head recently and something like this would be a nice complement or backstory!
LoraDayton 2 years
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long term success stories, feeder plus non-feedee bbw/ssbbw?
If you're in a relationship as a feeder and you're "frustrated" that the other partner isn't getting fatter, you are not in a relationship. You are objectifying them. There are no alternatives....
LoraDayton 2 years
Fun fact: the technical term for a tummy rumbling is "borborygmi" #themoreyouknow 🌠
CrowsEye 2 years
Learning!
LoraDayton 2 years
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being soft vs. gaining
I'm a non-gaining feedee. This means I like the act of feeding as a fun kink sometimes, but I don't have any interest in gaining. Too many people here see everything in absolutes with little ro...
LoraDayton 2 years
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adderall is ruining my gain...
No one said they weren't. What was said was that they ARE medically necessary for some people. The literal effect of medical amphetamines (which are not the same as recreational methamphetamine...