Pretty sure you're describing something that can be a felony in several states.

This isn't "domination" this is abuse, assault, and food tampering.

Excuse me, *what*?! You send a random fat person *food* — a person you don't know anything about — because *you* get off on their fatness. That's not "positive" that's just fetishizing and inherently fatphobic. Not all fat people are fat because they eat a lot of food or even enjoy it. If you had done that to me in a bar I'd be humiliated and furious. And you wouldn't know because I'm a stranger.

Sending drinks to people is already a bit of a risk due to factors (maybe it *looks* like they're drinking but they're not for whatever reason, or they don't like the beverage you sent if you aren't sending the same one they'r drinking etc) but it's still generally the socially acceptable way to signal to someone you noticed them.

Oh Munchies you know I can go on *all day* about how fatphobic the fat kink community is. You nailed it perfectly!

What a way to announce you're willfully cheating on your boyfriend.

Oh yes! Diet control in general is very exciting to me, for this reason. Wrapping it up in a blackmail or a "this-or-that" reward makes it even more exciting!

Haha I wrote a whole story based on this called Stuffing Season. It's meant to be kinky fun between feedists. One "blackmails" the other into being her feedee for a few months. Not gonna lie it's pretty great

Hey! To get back to your point:

If you're looking for in-home equipment, you'll likely have to drop big cash for something that can hold your weight. If you're willing to spend about a grand you can easily find something that suits you. Keep in mind that it's not just the equipment but also form and correct wear for using them. EG if you invest in a treadmill you will need quality running shoes fitted for your gait and foot orientation (Even if you just walk, trust me!). If you get a bike, shorts and clips are a godsend. etc.

If budget is a concern, most affordable home-friendly products that are budget-conscious generally have a 250-300lb weight limit and it's not worth the gamble of injuring yourself. So if you're still in the weight limit range of those products, it would be fine to get them now to keep yourself in shape, develop form and habit, but be aware you will have to upgrade in the future.

Honestly and truly my best advice is to consult with a trainer. Book them for a few sessions. Take the time to find one that does *not* do weight management (you may even have to go to tiktok/instagram to find the HAES type trainers or search for recs there!). They will be the best suited to evaluate and advise you and you'd be surprised how affordable they can be! There are plenty that will work with you online if staying at home is your top priorty.

Last note about gyms - I know you know the option is there so I won't say much except that regarding the upgraded equipment I mentioned, that's often why people choose to pay for memberships even if they get roped in for a year contract. The equipment is insured, maintained, and built for heavy use and bodies and even a whole years' membership won't touch what even one of those machines cost. Heck if may be an option to try a few gyms out to see what kind of equipment they have so *you* know what to shop for to bring home. They're not all equal!

Did the divorce finalize that fast?

yesssssss! Especially with a boss/subordinate scenario. There was a fantastic story on here with that premise some years ago and totally turned me on to the idea.

I forget the precise role the feedee had in the company but she was caught embezzling. Boss decided to keep her but she had to eat *Everything* she was offered. Everything. It was so hot!

hi merle and exathlete - you may want to re-read unless you meant to respond to another thread or reply that no longer exists. As I stated, I exclusively (eg no switching) play feedee/inflatees in RP. Good luck!