Heaviest person you have ever dated or meet in public?

Went to a feedist meet-up a few years ago. The largest woman was over 500 pounds..
1 year

What is an "evil feeder"

My favorite Evil Feeder fantasy is when a woman wants to gain but feels too guilty or afraid to do it on her own.

But she'll give consent to being forcibly fattened. She'll even let herself into the back of my panel van, knowing that there's no turning back.

Then I take her to my secret lair and fatten her up. I probably wouldn't make it painful, unless she really wanted it. I'd just impose punishments like no television or something like that.
1 year

Exercise

I think the best exercises to do are those things that become difficult when you get bigger. Climbing stairs, getting out of chairs, picking things up of the ground, sitting down on the floor and getting back up are all good things to do.

I realize these don't involve some buying product or other, as you requested, but products are not always the best solutions. If you fall and can't get back up, a pair of barbells won't help.
2 years

Prepping for getting fat

Actually most of the prep stuff is in another article I wrote, "Deciding to Get Fat": web.archive.org/web/20201111145306/http://askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/dtgf.html

This was linked to by the "How to Get Fat" but if you haven't started gaining yet this may be the better article.
2 years

Prepping for getting fat

J8o8h8n:
What are some recommendations and advice people have for someone who hasn't taken the gaining plunge yet, but wants to prep for the possibility of eventually doing it?


My article "How to Get Fat" has some stuff on this: web.archive.org/web/20210518112704/http://askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/htgf.html
2 years

Ai roleplay

Wow, this is fun! I made up a character who was tired of dieting and talked to a psychiatrist about quitting and getting fat. The shrink tried to talk me out of it at first, but finally gave up and told me to go ahead and get fat, as long as I was kind to myself and accepted myself. Pretty tame stuff by weight-gain story standards, but fun anyway.
2 years

Weight gain montage soundtrack

I'm stumped. Had to compose the music for my own weight-gain video. Don't know if it's any good but oh well...

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2 years

Weight gain montage soundtrack

MVP76:
Definitely Weird Al Yankovic's "Fat" and "Eat It" should be in it lol


A bit too on the nose for my taste...
2 years

Teaching normies to be feedees

AskDrFeeder:
I'm not talking about just introducing someone to a new thing, I'm talking about the case where you introduce them to a new thing and they get into it. If you don't want to call that "teaching", fine by me but your term doesn't quite work either.

Munchies:
That's basic English, but you do you, boo.


I don't know, sometimes you introduce someone to a new thing and they don't like it.
2 years

Teaching normies to be feedees

AskDrFeeder:
I've heard this story many times. A person has no interest in feedism but is persuaded to try it by their feeder. They gain some and by their partner's reaction realize how erotic feedism can be. It starts to turn them on, and before you know it they appreciate gaining on its own merits. They'll want to continue even if they break up with their partner.

Has this happened to you? Can you add any details? (I've heard of this happening many times but no one seems to be able to describe it very well. )

Munchies:
Why feedees and not feedists?

I digress.


Good question, but I'd rather do one question at a time!

Munchies:
Can't teach someone to participate in a kink they don't want to participate in.


AskDrFeeder:
I think that's usually true, but it does happen sometimes. They'll try it and find they like it. Maybe you don't want to call that "teaching" but it's a thing.

Munchies:
It's not teaching. That is introducing someone to a new thing.

For example, I didn't get into BDSM until a partner introduced it to me. He didn't teach me a thing. I figured out what I did and didn't like while he supported me through my discovery.

There were things he liked that were no-goes for me. Meanwhile, there were things that I enjoyed that he was largely ambivalent about.

Circling back to the original topic, there are numerous ways to be a feedee. As such, you can't be taught. You can explore it. You can go on a journey. But it's something you have to figure out for yourself.


I'm not talking about just introducing someone to a new thing, I'm talking about the case where you introduce them to a new thing and they get into it. If you don't want to call that "teaching", fine by me but your term doesn't quite work either.
2 years