Most weight gained is permanent. Fat cells don't disappear, they just shrink. It is the tendency for the cells to return to normal size. I know a lot of 400 pound people who started out planning to stop gaining, and they never could.
4 years
When you are 20, and having a life expectancy until 60 is no big deal. However, when you are 59, and having a life expectancy to 60, is a big deal.
4 years
Report it to the admins.
4 years
This is not real life, this is the Internet. You might find someone you hit it off with, or you may not. I've never really made friends here, but I do not expect to find friends when I am 70 years old and married. The best thing is to join as many things as you can, in real life, and the Internet, and hope you find people you hit it off with. No one single place is guaranteed to work.
4 years
It must be hard with the foaming of the mouth.
4 years
You just joke and kid around. While eating in a restaurant, you say something like, "if I have dessert, I'll look like her." (point out a very fat woman.) See what he says. It sounds like he is a feeder, and you are a feedee, but you are both afraid to admit it. But some joking around before having a serous conversation will give you both a good idea where you each stand.
4 years
The FDA only makes sure the medicine is safe. They have no say whether the medicine works or not. Most ads have a disclaimer that the FDA has not evaluated the effectiveness of it. This pretty much applies to "homeopathic" medicines. Prescription medicine is handled differently.
4 years
I think one problem, is that most FA's do not know themselves if they can be in a relationship with a thin person. Will the personality, looks, politics, and interests be enough? Or will the FA have to end the relationship because of no physical attraction and hurt the other person? Now, if an FA thinks the other person will gain weight, that happens only in fat fiction, and not real life. It doesn't hurt to date a thin person, and during the "discovery" period show a perspective relationship pictures of exes who are larger, or casually mention you don't mind dating larger people. In that period, there is a lot of negotiating about all kinds of things to determine if the dating turns into a boy/girlfriend situation.
4 years
FatLover91:
I’m assuming they’ll be ok with it. They don’t know I’m purposely gaining. I mean what choice will they have when I’m 800lbs and unable to walk?
becomingoverweight:
I mean, they could always throw you out on the lawn. It's not like you'll starve to death. You'd only need vitamins and water from then on.
FatLover91:
How would they put me out on the lawn if I’m 800lbs?
LuvsChub04:
it could be long before 800... you won't even be very mobile at around 500+...Theyll probably tell you to lose weight, so you can ya know work, be mobile have a life etc...Listen I'm not hating on your fantasy, yet thats what this is, a fantasy... The only way immobility fetish's can happen is if both parties consent, and you don't have the other party....
FatLover91:
It’s not a fantasy for me. I’m looking very hard to find a feeder. But in the meantime I’m gaining as fast as I can.
I hate to join the other people, but there are far fewer female feeders than male. This person will not only have to feed you, pay for all of the food, and support you, since you have never worked. In addition, they will have to attend to you every minute. Someone can have a fantasy of a partner gaining to 800, but working all day to support you, and then come home and wipe your butt does not sound like a life most women would want.
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