Bloatedsodacan:
I remember watching it awhile ago and then coming back to it lmao. It's like a guilty pleasure movie to an extent, given it's a movie to really cover something like feederism.
Not saying it's like, a great movie on the topic though. Far from it. If anything it's just funny-
it is far worse than funny. it paints people who are part of this community as being sick, or worse, criminals. it doesn't have any nuance to it at all.
it is best forgotten, imo.
1 year
Munchies:
It's very interesting to see how terminology has changed over time.
also the term "feederism" seems widespread, but i agree with the folks that say "feedism" is more accurate. it reflects that the feedist community is not limited to the feeder's perspective, or is not necessarily feeder-centric. it includes all of those other roles and perspectives, too.
1 year
munchies, if laziness is really the biggest issue here, it could be solved just by changing the volume to "blank" or "undecided."
your comments around people learning about a community before diving head-first into it are a good observation... back when i first discovered the world of feedism, probably the late 90s, it was such a tiny online community (because most of the world was still offline at that point), this wasn't an issue because everything was so basic. there was dimensions online and maybe one or two other destinations, and the "glossary" was pretty up-front. now there are a lot of spaces with slightly different angles - ff isn't the same as curvage, which isn't the same as feabie, etc. etc... plus the plus-size, body acceptance, (etc. etc.) movements have all added layers of complexity and different lenses...
(it's not a bad thing at all, it's really blossomed in fact... but with that blossoming come opportunists, too...)
1 year
PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.
it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.
1 year
maybe the best bbw video ever - skinny by lo-rider...
i'm not sure what the song is about, but the video is all about big, beautiful, confident women! 17 years old and still amazing!
youtu.be/eKUGltGwN3U
1 year
"fat" by kate yeager is a pretty powerful song about bigger bodies....
1 year
for those big tit lovers, especially those fluent in german, rammstein has your back....
1 year
@potbellysissy has recently been posting a story called "chastity pig." each chapter is being posted as a separate story, which i thought was odd.
i asked the question why in the story comments, and that comment just got deleted. so i am asking it here - why? because the same author has posted other stories in the usual format, with multiple chapters in the story.
question for the mods - are there any guidelines for authors on this sort of thing? seems kind of clickbaity to me.
1 year
PiggyMouth:
I had a question. Do you know if I drink a lot of sweet soda of cream, milk, will I get as fat as someone who eats a lot of fast food?
you don't have to have any specific type of food to get fat - just eat more of anything and you will gain weight. most of my weight gain was a result of going out to eat, drinking beer, and generous amounts of home cooking. i've never done any specific thing in extreme, with moderate/normal amounts of sugar and salt.
if you eat lots and let your metabolism slow, you will gain weight. simple as that. whether it's cream, big macs, or a bowl of spaghetti.
1 year
Biggirlxo:
How many calories have u eaten in a day before??
a few years ago i started to use a calorie tracking app on the recommendation of my partner... i had been complaining that i was putting on weight and i wasn't sure why.
it turned out i was eating between 4000 and 7000 calories daily! and that was just my normal eating habits at the time. i am guessing that on days when i was intentionally stuffing myself (or being stuffed) it probably hit 10,000 or more - but that would be pretty exceptional.
1 year
