Angelgluttony:
OK so this is gonna be probably a very long rant and my last try at “putting myself out there”
For those who want to continue reading I am sure you have somewhat of a similarity to the title of my forum.
So, I’ve been on fantasy Feeder for awhile and I’ve met 4 people IRL over the course of having this page up. I really am happy I got the chance to meet those who share common intrest in real life and not just some online spank kink. (Which is okay but I personally don’t care for it especially if every time we talk you’re “horny”.) And this is on a CONNECTION basis just putting that out there. Too many people get confused when people say they want a connection. Not a SB.
I feel like I’m just wasting my time. It’s the same thing over and over and over again on a lot of sites surrounding Feederism or something similar. I’m not gonna lie when I say I’ve looked back at my previous forums and I’m quite disappointed in myself. I feel uneasy knowing that I want a connection and I’m taking the extra mile and achieving nothing, yet I continue. It’s not just that, it’s also giving people your time just for them to play around with it. I mean jeez, I really hit it off with someone who happened to be in my state. Very Kind soul. He lifted me up in a time where I was just down. We related a lot on what we wanted. It was nice. Weeks and weeks went by and I stopped hearing from them. I messaged them every other day in hopes that they were okay. That’s when I realized I’ve been making a fool of myself by trying to communicate with someone whom probably didn’t want to be bothered. 🤷♀️ Who knows anymore. All I know is I know what I want. But I won’t make a fool of myself out of loneliness or desperation. So, no more posts “searching” or “looking” I’ll let time decide. 🫶🏿
Thanks for coming to my tedtalk.
Discord:blubberbabe only looking for likeminded people per my previous forums.
That’s it. Adios.
so, as a guy who has been "putting myself out there" for about 25 years, i hear what you're saying. when you're looking for a "connection" i can only advise that kink is such a tiny part of everything... find the person who thinks your interesting, who likes you for you, who shares your values and don't worry if your interests are really different - having a partner with interests different than yours is a great way to be introduced to new stuff.
the internet has made meeting people easier... and harder. easier, in that you have access to people that you never used to have. but harder, in that it has devalued the whole system with people behaving badly and trying to "game" the system.
it's not limited to kink, it's not about feedism, this site or any other site - it's just everywhere. and it's unfortunate, but it's what we have. i highly encourage young people to find ways to connect with new people in the real world, get away from online life, too.
