Toronto gta meet up ideas.

let me know where/when and i will try to make it!
2 years

The tables have turned.

DollGirl:
Ngl that's kind of hot and I am hoping he's next 😈


lol! i don't think so... he's pretty die-hard fitness guy (that's why she lost so much weight, it was his influence). he was even giving me exercise advice... i didn't want to insult him, so i just nodded. smiley
2 years

The tables have turned.

i thought i should share a little update... emily and i were in ottawa before christmas and we had dinner with diane (my ex) and her boyfriend again.

di is even smaller than she was last time we were together almost a year ago. she said she was down to 215 lbs!

i was now about twice her size! and to think, when we met years ago i was around 150 lbs and she was about 3 times my size!

and i am almost as big now as she was when we met, something she was quick to point out.

and her boyfriend is right ripped - i used to be fit an athletic, but he is in way better shape than i ever was.
2 years

What's the most amount of weight you've put on in the shortest about of time?

this question got me thinking... so i looked at the log of my weight that feabie keeps...

the first year of my gaining i went from 170 lbs to 230.

then i gained a little more, to 260, and thought i was going to stop gaining...

...until the pandemic started, and i gained almost 100 lbs in a year! smiley

it's slowed since then (but not stopped it seems!)
2 years

Wg skincare

the biggest change for me was drying after showering. as i started to develop rolls, and got big enough that certain areas didn't get exposed to air, taking time to "air out" is important. after a shower i usually lay on the bed with a fan running to dry myself off. it allows me to move my belly out of the way and open up other spots to the air flow that need it. i do this before moisturizing anything.
2 years

Saw mom for the first time since 70lb gain

User14244360:
So the last time I saw my mom was at the end of April when I graduated college. I was 230 lbs which was the heaviest I had been, the last time she had seen me before that was Christmas break where I was maybe around 190ish. I could tell she was surprised at graduation but didn’t say anything expect offering to take me clothes shopping.

So she’s been trying to come visit me the past few months but plans never worked out. That was until last weekend. I’m now over 300 lbs, making that a 70 lb gain since I last saw her. I don’t know what I expected her reaction to be really. She hates confrontation so I kind of expected her to not say anything. Also to preface my mom has never weighed more than 150lbs in her life and she can literally eat whatever she wants without gaining.

Anyways here’s what her reaction was. So first, I opened the door to my apartment when she got there and she audibly gasped. I giggled because I thought she was just happy to see me and I gave her a hug. After pulling away from the hug she said “Oh my God, what happened?! You’re so fat” And just kinda stood there shocked also and not knowing what to say because I didn’t expect her reaction to be that forward. When we got inside she kept asking questions about how I gained so much, if I had seen a doctor, if I was going to the gym etc. At some point she asked how much I weighed I told her and she said “you’re literally double my weight.”

So that was the big “fat talk” we had, and nothing else too exciting really occurred. Though I saw her watching everything I ate and saw her look whenever I pulled my shirt down when it would start riding up. But yeah that was that. Kinda glad to finally get it out of the way but it probably would’ve been better if it had happened a couple months ago so the shock wouldn’t be so extreme.


great story! i had a similar interaction with my mom when i started gaining. she is also not really forward, but she asked some questions, like, "are you ok? are you sick?" i had been fit for so long it was a shock to start with, but she's not mentioned my gradual gain from 300 to over 400.
2 years

Being humiliated for being out of shape (during sex)

my gal likes me to get on top, she likes to feel the weight of my belly over her. but i don't last too long, i can't last on my knees very long.

when i am on my back, if she leans on me and forces her weight on my stomach/torso i have trouble breathing, so i end up gasping a little. rolling over is tough for me now, too, and she teases me about that a lot.

her teasing really turns me on, especially when she mentions how easy all of this activity was for me before i turned into such a fat, weak land whale. smiley
2 years

Who was thin and got fat

HappyBigBelly:
Nice :-) Many an ex-cheerleader are on here with the same “gaining arc” after cheering days are over. Interestingly, I see more chubby cheerleaders at ballgames than ever before. The world is changing!


it's not just a kink, it's not just a lifestyle... it's evolution! smiley
2 years

How overweight were you when your belly began to touch your thighs sitting down

AlmostOverweight:
Trying to gain until my belly reaches my thighs when i sit upright. Its so fucking exciting to think about all the weight ill have to put on to achieve this. Ik its different for everyone but i kind of want some idea of how big ill be afterwards and how everyones experiences were when they first noticed this on theirselves.


i am not exactly sure, but i am guessing i was over 250 lbs.
2 years

Question for those who have gained on purpose

AskDrFeeder:
Let's say someone is on the fence about gaining. They already know the possible downsides. What would you tell them about the upsides?

In your own case, was there some event that decided you to start? What was it?

After you started gaining, was there some experience that confirmed you'd made the right choice?

If you're still gaining, what inspires you to continue?


this is a great conversation!

well into adulthood i was a gym guy, and it was a kind of lifestyle for me, as it is for many. some will call it being dedicated and disciplined, but really a lot of it just a routine. you just get used to it.

well into adulthood (i was 39 or 40?) i met someone who started to open my eyes to a different kind of lifestyle. i started to learn from her, the enjoyment of indulgence. food as pleasure rather than nourishment. while it wasn't a straight line, and there was some self doubt and angst along the path, what i learned eventually was that this other lifestyle brought me more joy than the gym grind i'd been following for decades.

that, to me, is the great advantage, being fat is kind of an ancillary perk (and sometimes an unpleasant consequence, but by and large it is positive).

getting fat also helped me discover my submissive side, i am not sure how that fits in. smiley
2 years