For me, I always had a burning desire to look round, soft, and most of all well-fed. I found myself wishing people would see me and think things like "He's not missing too many meals" or "Look how well he's been eating".

I also have always had a fetish for outgrown clothes. It took me awhile to work up the courage, but I semi-regularly go out wearing too-small clothes to deliberately show off my fat and provoke looks or remarks. In general, I wear my clothes more form-fitting now so my blubber is obvious even when dressing "normal."

It's all about going against the social norm. When I decided to gain, I adopted a sedentary lifestyle in order to turn my muscles to Jell-O. I did not want to be seen as one of those powerlifter types who look strong but with a belly. I wanted to be a soft, round doughboy. Feeling myself get softer, flabbier, and even weaker was amazingly erotic for me.

You'll find that suspenders will frame that belly of yours and make it look more prominent....which is probably what you want.

Got two side jobs. First, I contacted my favorite pizza place in town and got a delivery job. I don't get free pizza, but I get a good discount.

Then I got a job working for Sara Lee, going into stores and bringing the bread in from the back. I get all the free doughnuts and danishes (Entenmann's is one of their brands), plus bread, bagels, English muffins, cookies...basically everything they sell is carbs and sugar.

I'd love to see Christina Ricci fatten back up. In the late '90s, she was damn near perfection. As a teen, she got big breasts early but by her late teens, she began to fill out. She has kind of a big head and naturally chubby cheeks and it was a really good look for her.

Unfortunately, a few years later, she got breast reduction surgery and then starved herself first to an average weight and then to a stick thin weight for a movie called Black Snake Moan. Since then, she's been thin but one can always hope...

Speaking of celebrity weight gain, Bridget Fonda has at least doubled her weight since she was last in movies. There have been some paparazzi pix and it's shocking to see how she's changed from being a movie star to looking like just another obese woman at Walmart. I also just saw an ad for some Christian movie Sean Astin is in and he's gotten really fat as well.

I think people as a whole need to embrace getting fatter. It's a natural thing for most of us even if we're not deliberately overeating.

People need to celebrate the fact that food is abundant and mostly cheap and there's little to no need to do physical labor anymore. There's no reason why we shouldn't indulge ourselves and let our bodies grow fat and soft.

20 years from now, fat will be the norm.

While I'd prefer my weight be distributed more evenly, two of the nicest compliments was when one person asked when I was due and another said I looked pregnant with twins.

They sell Stroopwaffle at Trader Joe's in the US.

I got a side job at the best pizza place in town so I get a 50% discount, so I bring home pizza about three nights a week. The 2XL shirts I was given a couple of months ago when I started are getting short so the pizza and pasta have been helping me continue to fatten up.

First off, I love to eat and I love to cook.

I've also always wanted to look soft, round, and very well-fed. I deliberately limit my activity to achieve a thick doughboy look; I want people to think I do little but sit and stuff myself.

I also love the feeling of my clothes getting tighter and smaller on me. Now that I'm fat, more often than not I wear my clothes a bit snug so that my fat is obvious to others. I love looking like I'm growing out of my clothes.

No, virtually everyone I've met on here to talk to either through chat or messaging is a flake. One minute they're telling me how hot my pix are or how they totally agree with my views on gaining and the next, they're gone and you never hear from them again.

Then you have the ones that can't carry on a conversation. Every chat message gets a response of "ok" or "cool" or "why don't you go eat some more". If you're lucky, they won't then either give you a sob story and ask you for money or send you links to clothes they want to buy and how if you pay for them, they'll model them for you.

The only people here who have much of a chance are women or gay guys.