[b]canadianenglish wrote[/b
There is nothing wrong with being an FA and meeting a girl in a bar and starting a conversation like you would a "normal" guy trying to pick up a "normal" girl.
You look gorgeous, you are beautiful etc, etc. easy compliments that's responses can be fashioned beyond weight. There is nothing wrong with liking a girl who is big, fat, zatfig whatever, but by and large and what MOST girls here are telling you is a girl (regardless of size) wants to be told she is gorgeous... if you want to go into the dynamics of what makes her gorgeous wait until the time is appropriate or when the girl tries to make her size or weight an issue... they will appreciate the fact you got to know them as a PERSON a lot more.
Well said/written.