Absolutely. For years I denied my fetish, convinced that nobody would ever want me if I was fat and that my life would be better if I was thin. So I dieted way down, but I was miserable. Always hungry and disgusted at how much better strangers treated me. Losing a large amount of weight reveals just how shallow most people are.

Finally I couldn't take it anymore. I craved the feeling of a full belly. And around that time I discovered feedism and the FA community. I could have both food and a romantic partner! So I decided to embrace my fat. I ate what I wanted and slowly packed on the pounds.

Later I tried being a feedee and liked it. Same with mutual feeding, as long as my partner wants to stay smaller than me. Now I am 354 lbs and loving it!

I had a ton of white bread crusts kicking around after I made tea sandwiches with most of a loaf the other day. They could be used for breadcrumbs, or stuffing... but why, when I could easily transform them into glorious dessert? And this recipe is indeed glorious. The pudding is tasty, but the sauce is a a thing of beauty. So easy too! Soaking the bread and then baking the pudding does take some time, but the techniques here are quite simple.

The only thing I would change is the milk, next time I'll use half whole milk and half heavy cream for extra fattening. You could try using cream instead of evaporated milk in the caramel sauce too, although evaporated milk has the advantage of being shelf stable. It's delicious even as written though. Note that the sauce will thicken up some as it cools but it won't get super thick. I personally like it that way, soaks into the pudding better.

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Hey, a fellow UU! Nice, it's not often I encounter people of my faith outside church.

Yet another bisexual lady here! I'm a feedee, but would also like to explore mutual gaining. Alas, I currently live in rural Colorado, so for now I'm mostly looking for online friends. Hopefully I will be able to move to the Denver metro within the next few years.

My fear is falling madly in love with a feeder who loses interest in me once I stop gaining. I don't want to get diabetes or heart disease, and I *really* don't want to use mobility aids until I get old.

Not my thing at all. I already have health issues that are not fat related and it sucks when your body stops you from doing what you want! So if I start developing metabolic syndrome, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, etc, I will do my best to get it under control. If that means I never reach my goal of 400 lbs, so be it.

So far, so good though! My fasting glucose and A1C are normal, so are my lipids. My blood pressure is a bit higher than I'd like but not officially high. Part of that could be stress, part of it is the fact that I can't buy yoga classes or a gym membership right now because I'm trying to scrape up enough money to get my cat some expensive veterinary treatment.

Yeah, this is my goal. To get as fat as I can while not suffering major health issues and still being able to do what I want without assistance. Putting my shoes on, bathing, cleaning the house, waddling around a zoo or museum, doing some simple yoga, catching the cat to take him to the vet. I'm fine with having to stop and rest periodically though.

Definitely! Prior to that point I had belly rolls, but they weren't big enough to hang down or take up much space on my lap. Once I got close to 300 the pounds started to pack onto my belly. It began to droop down, stick out farther, jiggle more as I walked, sit on my lap. Now that I'm coming up on 360, I can't see my feet without bending over. My hanging belly is starting to sway side to side as well as jiggle when I walk... well, waddle. It takes up a lot of space on my lap; many restaurant booths are a tight squeeze now with the table edge digging into my pillowy rolls. And getting my shoes on is a lot harder than it used to be!

For question 2, definitely look into bidet attachments for your home toilet(s)! I've seen grabby sticks on Ample Stuff to hold toilet paper or a cloth for drying off. For traveling, maybe a squirt bottle like what women who just gave birth use. I believe it's called a peri bottle.

I know 'exercise' is a dirty word here, but gentle yoga doesn't burn a lot of calories and with regular practice it will increase your flexibility to reach those difficult places.

Oh! For showering, you NEED a detachable shower head. Or a combo setup where you have both a regular shower head and a wand thingy. Honestly I think everyone, fat or thin, can benefit from these. It's so much easier to get every nook and cranny completely clean this way!

I'm probably the exception among women in that I like short partners. I want to be bigger than my lover, not just in weight but in height as well. Large and in charge!

Now, height isn't a dealbreaker for me. I'd happily accept a tall FA or feeder who otherwise fit well with me. But ideally I would like a lover who is noticeably shorter and thinner than me.