I call myself a gaining admirer. I like to see women gain, but get no real enjoyment in the feeding process other than the weight gain. There are a lot of variations in feeder/feedee. If a woman gains from taking medicines, rather than eating, that is fine with me. I can also like women who are steady.
Habanbucherer:
To each his/her/their own, of course (just do what you feel like doing), but it got me thinking: am I in the right place here? or is FF actually not for me? Any other members (girls/boys) recognising this?
LoraDayton:
I'm a non-gaining feedee. This means I like the act of feeding as a fun kink sometimes, but I don't have any interest in gaining. Too many people here see everything in absolutes with little room for nuance or subjectivity.
Feedism and FA are not the same thing, they just have a lot of overlap. There are also just belly fetishists in general, and typically you'll find those in more body expansion/preg kink circles (even if the expansion part isn't their thing).
2 years
It could be that you posted something, and other men were curious about where you live, what your size is, or something else related to your comment.
2 years
If you are gaining weight, tent dresses and stretch pants are the best, They allow for future gains.
2 years
I've noticed that if you do anything at a certain time long enough, your body expects you to do it every day at that time. Whether it be eating, sleeping, using the bathroom, etc.
2 years
If you stare at a fat person, they will think you don't like it, and that you think they are a freak. You might be able to get away with looking, if you give a smile.
2 years
After meeting many many women throughout my long life who hated being BBWs, it's nice to see those who like being BBWs.
3 years
I don't think too many people will donate to men gaining weight. Just trying to get to 800 pounds with no plan on how you will earn money and who will take care of you is not a good idea. You need to get a good paying job, like an accountant. If you depend on a job that requires a lot of physical activity, you're not going to have an income. Most people looking for super large mates are looking for women.
3 years
I am using it. My barely 38B breasts didn't get any larger yet, but they are definitely more femininely shaped. My doctor has me on Anti-Androgen for blood pressure.
3 years
I live near Philly, but I am married (to a non-feedee BBW) and am 71 years old. So, even though I like it, in person meetings are not an option.
3 years
