Accepting yourself as a fat person

Tubby Marie:
I first was fat at age 15 at 165 pounds went on a diet and lost 40 pounds. For years I wold go back on a diet as soon as I hit 140 even got down to 120. By my 30's I would let my self go back up to 165 or so and diet back to 140. When I was turning 40 I figured It was time to get the weight off for good I had hit 173 pounds went on a diet and got back to 125 pounds. For 3 years I would go on a diet as soon as I gained 5 pounds. Being on a diet all the time sucked so I gave up and 2 years later I was 196 pounds. Upon seeing my reflexion in a store window I was mortified at the size of my belly, I looked 9 months pregnant with twins. I bought as ale and weighed my self saw the num we and went on a crash diet I got back down to 130 pounds but with in 3 years I was bac up to 175 pounds, I went on yet another diet got down to 150 and with in 6 months I was back at 175. That was it I faced the fact I am a fat person and will always be fat. Last year at this time I was at 220 but that was just too big for me. My belly was too heavy to carry around at that size I lost 30 pounds but of course I have gained back 10. So the. bottom line is I know I am fat and will always be fat,


Let the yo-yo go smiley My gf has
been heavy much of her life and her confidence just continues to turn me on. She hasn't seen anything south of 200 pounds since her early 20s. Now at about 310/320, her triple-Ds and soft double belly is quite the erogenous zone where my hands are concerned smiley
9 years

People with big bellies, how do you wear your bathrobe?

My belly hardly qualifies as "big" but it's a decent-sized bowling ball smiley When it's cold enough outside to tool around indoors in my robe, i wear the tie below my belly. It's simply more comfy that way smiley
9 years

Most weight gained in 2015?

I gained a net of maybe 5-10 pounds. Hit 204 over the holidays and hope to keep it there smiley
9 years

Half a ton on the bed :-)

As some of you might have seen, my girlfriend just rejoined the "300 club", getting her voluptuous self back up to 310 pounds or so. Well this holiday season, I've hovered around 200 myself. Rocking a soft bod and a growing pooch belly have never felt so good :-) When we're in bed, nothing turns me on like caressing her soft arms and back. And we have 500 pounds on our box spring, which will be a test of any furniture store warranty ;-)
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

shortybbw:
Congrats to your gf for joining the “300 club”. I’ve been there several times and am close to joining again. I hope to do so by the end of the year. I am 5-0 and am currently 293 lbs. . Being as short as I am even a small gain of 5 pounds or so is quite noticeable and my boyfriend is usually the first to notice and to compliment me.


As well he should smiley Mine tells me she does NOT want to be skinny. She just wants to be loved. With her soft belly and 46DDD chest, I'll be sure to make that happen smiley

And congrats for (nearly) re-entering the 300 club!
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

ChubbyHubby:
What about letting her know that her size is yet one more thing you love and enjoy about her, rather than something you overlook or love her in spite of??? Unless that would be too weird for her at this stage? Just curious :-)


Oh, she knows I love her size. I just wanted to let her know I appreciate her selflessness smiley
9 years

Runs in the family?

MrsJellyBelly:
my family is very very fat-phobic... Christmas should be interesting...


My mom's a health nut and always paranoid about her weight. So it's refreshing she's accepting of my being with a proudly fat girl smiley
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

Oliver Hardy:
Sounds like it will be a happy holiday season for the both of you. Bon appetit, enjoy it !


Thanks smiley The best part was when she said it was cool I loved her despite her size. I simply said the size of her heart was all that mattered to me smiley
9 years

Holiday weight gain and revelation!

I'm happy to report my gf, who'd been flirting with joining the "300 club" for a while finally did it! I'm condensing this for time's sake, but long story short she'd held back telling me her exact weight but had suspected it since she felt so soft in my arms at night smiley She's 5-3 and now 310! Luscious DDD chest and a big, soft belly. I couldn't be a happier big boy smiley

As for me, I gained the weight back over the T/G holiday I lost a few weeks ago due to a bad cold. Back to 195; hope to someday get over 200 and actually stay there.
9 years

Introduction/ say hi thread

WaitingforWEIGHT:
Greetings to all, new here looking to gain some pounds and friends.


Here's to hoping you add to those already-promising hips smiley
9 years