expandingarousal:
I'm rather new to this and I know that the biggest thing is consistency but do others who have been gaining for a while ever feel their gain or themselves growing and actually find the pounds to come soon after? Sometimes I feel like my thighs are literally growing but I wasn't sure. I basically just am impatient and like any ways to know the work im putting in is worth it
Yep, this happens to me every time I gain weight to at least some extent: First my inner thighs feel like they're being pushed apart, and my butt feels heavier to carry around; walking or standing, for what used to be an okay amount of time, will suddenly make my lower back muscles start burning from the effort.
If I've been eating a lot lately, my belly will begin feeling like it never fully deflates in the mornings after I've gone to sleep stuffed.
The strongest "feel it before you see it" effect happens when I've been drinking heavy/double cream, (usually 300-600ml around 3-4 times a week, for 1-2 weeks). Heavy cream is famous for causing delayed scale gains that tend be seen/felt first.
It's easy to imagine gains are showing up if you're eager to see them, but that doesn't necessarily mean what you feel is all in your head
4 years
I’ll second everything that’s already been said, and just add that I started off with an experimental 10 day binge when I was at my lowest adult weight ever, and I managed to re-gain 18lbs. and the confidence to continue knowing that I was truly enjoying it.
I’ve never attempted to gain more than 10-20lbs at a time because that’s where I’m happy and self assured every time I’ve decided to gain more.
My point is: make a habit of checking in and listening to yourself, and letting that guide everything you do or don’t do. Thats how I’ve approached my gaining from day 1 and it’s 100% the reason my gaining experience has been so overwhelmingly positive for me.
4 years
Beyond nice to read that Curveman!
4 years
Ballbellyintraining:
When I do a major stuffing session, I get so turned on by my gut getting bigger and more stuffed as I eat. I also share photos with people too, I love it when they comment how enormous my gut it. But the end of the day it is so distended I can barely get out of bed and I cannot change the size by trying to suck it in. It is rock hard... It is so intoxicating.
Same dude, same 😂
I just crossed into a weight range I’ve been genuinely nervous would finally be too big for me to handle - 350lbs,, and completely unfit from home working and gluttonous laziness.
But now that I’m here I’m no less cognisant of those concerns, (they’re entirely legitimate, though only because I know to respect my intuitions about gaining), but I couldn’t be more enamoured with what these last 8-10 lbs have done to me! I couldn’t be more surprised by this, but my p***y has been on fire ever since my boyfriend told last night how fat I look as soon as he saw me after a week apart.
I suppose the process i started when my first quarantine 15 showed up - of giving up on this idea I have of myself as a feedee with limits - just keeps marching on...
There is nothing more intoxicating than growing fatter. Goddam my [quasi-]addictive personality!
4 years
For me, the best feeling is when my growing body starts confusing the muscle memory in my hands, as to where my body is/should be. Like, I'll move my hand to touch a part of my body, and find that it's no longer where my hand thinks it should be, because it's moved unexpectedly further away from me!
The entire process of realising and confirming, (or best if all when my partner notices it first!), that I’ve grown noticeably fatter... does things to me so intensely wonderful that it makes me grateful I’ve got a full blown fetish - I might be misremembering the thing I was reading on fetishists having more intense sexual fantasies and experiences than non-fetishists... but I'm pretty sure I'm winning by having this kink. (Btw I seriously recommend google scholar-ing feedism if you’re into that kind of stuff 🤓)
But yeah, any one of those things happens to me and... oh my lawd have mercy! 🙏🏼😅🔥
4 years
This is the probably the worst site you could use to try and meet real SSBBWs for a real life relationship. Feabie is better, but not my much; really not for a bloke already feeling some despair about about cat-fishers, time wasters and “content creators”. But if feedism is a must for you in a relationship, it’s your easiest way to find likeminded women.
Get yourself on a real dating site. Try WooPlus, and I hear POF is alright too. Have a google and give it a shot in a more appropriate corner of the internet.
4 years
I did a crazy binge to kick off my first 10 days of intentionally gaining. I was regaining weight so it flew back on; I think I gained 18lbs. in that week and a half!
4 years
Pummeluff:
Once you really get consumed by the idea of gaining weight which then gets reinforced by actually gaining weight. The inhibition level might sink to a level where this fetish is inevitably making you gain weight because you just don't want it to stop. I think this could be considered a point of no return psychologically.
At least that's the place where I am at at the moment....
I was searching the forum for something I could relate this exact feeling to, so cheers for that! I’m sort of wrestling/giving into this feeling right now... I never thought I’d get as big as I have - over 340lbs. - and I recognise the not-so-desirable effects it’s having on my mobility, and I’m a bit taken aback by how my face is becoming less recognisable as the one I remember having just a few months ago. Equally shocking is how many times these realisations have turned me on, to the point of craving a reckless abandon kind of Weight gaining.
I’ve settled on one last hurrah, a week or two of drinking cream for several days out of the week. I’m hardly in and already I can feel that these gains are going to be the ones I want to lose, but I need to go just far enough overboard to feel satisfied that I’ve done it. Seen over the horizon of functionally fat, so to speak.
I have absolutely no clue if this will still be the case come this time next month/year/decade though - only time will tell!
5 years
Sounds like I’m right on track with my signature double cream and binge eat for a week or two and cap it off with a couple days of little or no food before dinner time. Hoping it works as well as it has!
5 years
I plateaued hard between 280-300lbs. for a couple years, which has given me the impression that gaining like I once did would get harder and harder to achieve the bigger I got. Part of me thinks this must be bollocks, but the part of me that’s planning one last spurt of furious fattening to get me solidly over 350 would appreciate hearing any experiences my fellow superchubs have had gaining in this weight class!
5 years
