Contrast/size difference
I looove contrast, but it's not about size/weight for me, just body composition. I just like being softer than my partner.
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Knees
Knees are the weakest joints in our body, and one of the most important. You do not want to tempt fate if they start going out.
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How do you make your mind up with this kink
if the disgust/shame has a specific thought tied to it such as "omg this is so gross, my body looks terrible, why did I do this" then that's a sign of internalized fatphobia. Still it's not unc...
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How do you make your mind up with this kink
honestly there is no "making up your mind" I think. If you doubt whether or not you want to gain, then there's your answer. if you want to, you know.
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Your fantasy, my pen: let's craft your dream story!
Grammar and spellcheck already existed long before mass-market access to AI.
AI isn't a grammar tool. It can only function by scraping existing writing created by other humans. Even if you ...
AI isn't a grammar tool. It can only function by scraping existing writing created by other humans. Even if you ...
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Weird pig fetish
This isn't weird or uncommon at all!! There are LOTS of dom-types out there who are into this exact kind of play and content.
Heck, I'm the kind of sub who likes the more overt (not degradi...
Heck, I'm the kind of sub who likes the more overt (not degradi...
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Exhausting
every single site with membership on the planet has a TOS (essentially code of conduct, some are smart enough to label them clearly) and it doesn't mean anything at the end of the day when owne...
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Gaming
I'm mostly into indie horror (Phasmophobia, The Mortuary Assistant, Demonologist, etc) but have been playing Palia daily lol. I love the Sims and Tetris as well!
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Feeder man looking for feedee piglets
just a heads up to anyone responding to this person - it's clearly fake/a bot/mulitple accounts as there are other nearly-identical posts on this forum. I already sent screenshots to the team to re...
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People over/underestimating your weight
People guess my weight all the time to the point it's become a triggering thing and I refuse to even discuss it. If I could remove it entirely from my profile here, I would. I get told constantly I...
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Plus size dating apps
It's surprisingly easy to get banned from Tinder. Haven't used OKC in awhile so I couldn't tell you on that front but if enough fatphobes/misogynists report your photos for being fake or something ...
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Ai images
Thank you especially for #2. As a non-gaining feedee, I am constantly reminded how my body isn't good enough by both feedists and vanilla people. I'm too fat or not fat enough. Of course as som...
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I am so very tired of the "jokes" at my expense, the constant unsolicited crap in my inbox, all the people that are "too shy" to show their bodies when drooling over others and failing to mention the partners they're cheating on and hiding from, the food pfps mouthbreathing everyone, all the threads about how to coerce and cajole people, the vile misogyny and ableism I receive for holding my boundaries firm, the fatphobic expectation that I should be *grateful* for the attention, all of it. You all say you want real things and then refuse to treat us like people. Every second of the day.
Traveling
I can't offer much by way of physical logistics as they apply to extra-large travelers, but I can offer what it is I do to keep travel costs down.
The first thing that comes to mind with regards...
The first thing that comes to mind with regards...
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Haircuts and such
Oh if we're going with objectifying analogies, I keep playing the same note because what a shocker, you have absolutely no pitch or sense of tone and *still* can't manage to match the frequency...
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Haircuts and such
You do understand she is a whole person and not your personal doll to dress? Like seriously, this isn't that hard. "[wife's name], I just wanted to share how much your current hairstyle really ...
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