Alone


Oshkosh, Wisconsin, United States  
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Alone 1 year
Funny how the time in my life where I have the most money is the time when I have the least options romantically. Ugh. I need a feedee.
Alone 1 year
Eye spy
Alone 1 year
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
No good thing ever started with exclusion.
Alone 1 year
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still looking in wi. 39/m
Yeeeep that's the response I expected lmao
Alone 1 year
I'm on a boat bitch
Alone 1 year
new topic in Dating/Friendships forum
still looking in wi. 39/m
I'm shy and don't know what to do to approach people anymore, but I'm looking in WI. I've been around forever and haven't had much luck. I'm a gamer, a programmer, and a musician. I play practic...
Alone 2 years
Sorry I haven't been around much to write more fiction. My dad died of Covid. I'm kind of lost.
Alone 2 years
Feeling extremely depressed and alone
Jiggle Junkie 2 years
Ah, those familiar feelings. I didn’t want to get out of bed and deal with any form of reality today, but eventually did. Deep, slow breaths and something soothing to eat/drink sometimes help me when i’m in those places. You’re here, so that’s good 👏.

I’m doing my daily online cruise before diving back deep far, far away from reality into the land of fatlovesex fiction, where my characters are friendly and loving and sexy (and the majority are very fat—no spoiler there), and i can go deep, deep, deep into imagining what it would feel like to again be with some bountiful loving warm fat femme fleshy energy. Works for me.

Here’s hoping you have or find things that work for you, and that you’re already coming out of the depths by the time you read this.
Alone 2 years
Wish I had someone to talk to.
Carljessica81 2 years
Hey
Alone 2 years
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an abundance of fake profiles.
Oh, I didn't notice the part in the OP about lesbianism. It's not just you. It happens to men every day. Because due to the actions of a few high-profile shitty men, we all deserve it I guess.
Alone 2 years
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an abundance of fake profiles.
Absolutely. Ever since FF and Feabie showed up on TV shows so people could make fun of those who were different again, these sites have been populated almost entirely by fake profiles. Shitty peo...
Alone 2 years
Is feederism dead? Asking for myself. I've been looking for 20 years and now all I see is people either trying to make money off the fetish by selling "content" or people scamming each other by pretending to be a female in order to extort money from poor ***es who just want love. I just blocked another scammer after they couldn't pass the "send me a video of yourself holding a piece of paper with a specific word on it" without sending me a clearly edited single frame picture of some computer-generated handwriting photoshopped onto an index card which is in a hand that is photoshopped into an image of the girl they've been sending me pictures of.
Are you all fake as fuck? Or just 99% of you?

It's so easy to tell a scammer. They dodge easy questions pretending not to understand. They do not have any small talk abilities - if you ask them about anything other than the fetish they're trying to profit from, they will demonstrate no conversational skills. This scammer tried really hard because they even had some girl call me and talk to me on the phone but I could tell that conversation was also off because she barely responded to anything I said or claimed to not understand or hear me.

Why go to so much effort just to take a few bucks from someone? Is it just me that makes it this hard for a scammer? Does everyone else just give them money like DERP and thus they find it profitable enough to warrant doing it every day?

Sigh....I will never find someone real
Ditzy 2 years
They are free to try to scam you but you are free to not play their game.
Never quite understood guys paying for content but its their money and they can do what they want with it.
What always gets me is guys complaining, they made the choice to send money to someone they don't know.
Jiggle Junkie 2 years
Seems like the cost/benefit ratio may be akin to email spam: vanishingly low cost to cast a wide net, and it only takes one or a few rubes to make it pay off.

Kudos for your hard work. I don’t have to work as hard, because they give themselves away from the get-go, before i invest more than about 20 seconds tops in them (if that long). Not sharing it here ’cause i don’t want them to up their game. (You already know, i’m convinced from your post.)
Ditzy 2 years
I can't knock a girl for trying to make money and if she want s to make "content" of this nature it would be nice to do it honestly and not steal peoples money.
Sadly some have no honor and will say if he is dumb enough to pay me I'm going to take his money and walk.
I had a guy message me assuming I made content like this and I felt kind of offended when he offered to pay me.
Maybe being born in a different time has a lot to do with that.
Alone 2 years
I don't pay for content, and I'm not interested in that. I am and always have been only interested in a feeder/feedee relationship because it's all that will work for me. Now if there's a chance I can meet someone in real life, I am not opposed to buying them a meal or two ahead of time to show I'm real. In fact, most women demand that now. Thanks to *** guys who promised a lot and didn't deliver. Anyway, the downside of this is that now what used to be a feederism community has been taken over by two types of people: those trying to sell content (which I don't have a problem with if they're up front about it), and those trying to abuse the feederism community and extract money from it for who knows what reason. These people are most likely not even women but just guys sending videos. I have had MANY encounters with people like these on Fantasyfeeder and Feabie, especially in the last 2-3 years. If someone messages me out of the blue, there's a 95% chance they're a fake person trying to get me to send them money. I'm making that figure up but I am being dead serious that it's that high. I can't say that I've had a legitimate contact on this site or Feabie in the last five years. I always test them with very simple requests because I have been scammed before by someone I thought was real and it tore the fucking soul out of me. It should be a simple matter for a real human to record a five second video of them holding up a piece of paper with a word on it. But it ALWAYS trips up the scammers. I always get videos with text clearly added later, still pictures that were clearly taken from videos I had been sent previously and then photoshopped, etc. It's fucking maddening.
Alone 2 years
Everyone has a right to complain because everyone else has the propensity to be horrible. I'll take you through the exact sequence of events in a sec. But before I get to that, let me say....I swear, today's world is more sexist against men than ever before in history and I am at my wit's end and about to blow my fucking brains out because I cannot fucking take this anymore. I have been a decent and honest guy my entire life. I have always treated everyone with respect and humility. But it is getting more and more ridiculous just trying to live a normal life in this world as a male. I have always tried to be a good person in every possible situation. And here I am, 39 years old, still single because I have anxiety and have trouble talking to new people, and I'm just trying to find ONE person in the world who could love me. And so I spend weeks talking to someone, trying to get to know them, finally get some kind of media from them only to find out it's a fucking scammer trying to get me to give them my money because they are human scum and then I die inside all over again. So then I come to the ONLY PLACE ON THE INTERNET that I could possibly be understood and try to vent my frustration, and every single time someone shows up to say something like "Well clearly you did something wrong" which I know isn't what you said, and probably isn't even what you meant, but to me that's what it sounded like, and I am just losing my mind. I don't know how to deal with this kind of insanity. This world is insane and I can't handle it anymore.

So here's what happened...
Alone 2 years
I messaged a profile on FF that was from the recently new members list. The person and I started talking and "she" seemed nice. She started sending me pictures and videos and they were right off the bat clearly too good to be true. I mean, there was nothing that was a dead giveaway, but I knew this had to be some model's videos/pics. I couldn't find them in image searches, but that doesn't mean anything since they could be from a private set. And when I get images like that I'm immediately suspicious since scammers always seem to use unattainably attractive women (which is pretty dumb of them). Anyway, after a couple days, I convinced her to give me a phone call, because I wanted to hear a real human voice and thought that would assuage my fears. Of course, when we got on the phone, and I realized it was a Google voice number, and then we had connection trouble and a bad connection and I could barely understand her, I got even more suspicious. So I asked her to send me a video of herself holding a piece of paper with a specific word on it. Should be a simple matter and would have laid this to rest. The video I get back is another sexually-charged video with the word clearly like MS-Painted over the top of it. I said no, I need you to actually have it on a piece of paper in the video. Then I get back a still picture of the same girl from the videos (but it was clearly a zoomed-in freeze-frame of one of the videos) with a hand photoshopped in and an index card with clearly synthetic handwriting on it in the hand. And at this point I just blocked her because I knew this was a fake.

But seriously, this took me weeks to get this far. And I'm so fucking tired of running this gauntlet only to find out everyone is fake.

Like, sure, there are probably some real people around here. But at this point I have absolutely zero hope I'll ever find one.
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