not a nurse, but my ex was. she was a ssbbw, and while she was bigger than most of her colleagues, she didn't really stand out. most of them were of bigger stature.
1 year
the only time i hear the term "obese" used (to my face) is by my doctor.
my partner just calls me "fatboy." it's a lot less clinical.
1 year
Bigwideland:
Hi,
What is more comfortable for you?
For me it was on my right, side.
Also being propped on my back up is becoming more popular at 450 plus.
i am the same as you - mostly on my right side, with some pillows to help support me. when i turn onto my back, i need to be propped up a little with those pillows.
one of the things i really miss from my thin & fit days is being able to sleep on my stomach... as well as how easy it was to flip from one side to the other back then!
1 year
HappyBigBelly:
Judging just from this thread, I’ll stick to my faves from the Coen Bros. and anything with Paul Giamatti in it :-)
i am going to pile on and see if we can redirect this into a paul giamatti appreciate thread, lol!
1 year
Bloatedsodacan:
I remember watching it awhile ago and then coming back to it lmao. It's like a guilty pleasure movie to an extent, given it's a movie to really cover something like feederism.
Not saying it's like, a great movie on the topic though. Far from it. If anything it's just funny-
it is far worse than funny. it paints people who are part of this community as being sick, or worse, criminals. it doesn't have any nuance to it at all.
it is best forgotten, imo.
1 year
Munchies:
It's very interesting to see how terminology has changed over time.
also the term "feederism" seems widespread, but i agree with the folks that say "feedism" is more accurate. it reflects that the feedist community is not limited to the feeder's perspective, or is not necessarily feeder-centric. it includes all of those other roles and perspectives, too.
1 year
munchies, if laziness is really the biggest issue here, it could be solved just by changing the volume to "blank" or "undecided."
your comments around people learning about a community before diving head-first into it are a good observation... back when i first discovered the world of feedism, probably the late 90s, it was such a tiny online community (because most of the world was still offline at that point), this wasn't an issue because everything was so basic. there was dimensions online and maybe one or two other destinations, and the "glossary" was pretty up-front. now there are a lot of spaces with slightly different angles - ff isn't the same as curvage, which isn't the same as feabie, etc. etc... plus the plus-size, body acceptance, (etc. etc.) movements have all added layers of complexity and different lenses...
(it's not a bad thing at all, it's really blossomed in fact... but with that blossoming come opportunists, too...)
1 year
PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.
it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.
1 year
maybe the best bbw video ever - skinny by lo-rider...
i'm not sure what the song is about, but the video is all about big, beautiful, confident women! 17 years old and still amazing!
youtu.be/eKUGltGwN3U
1 year
"fat" by kate yeager is a pretty powerful song about bigger bodies....
1 year
