Sleeping if more that 400 lbs

Bigwideland:
Hi,

What is more comfortable for you?

For me it was on my right, side.

Also being propped on my back up is becoming more popular at 450 plus.


i am the same as you - mostly on my right side, with some pillows to help support me. when i turn onto my back, i need to be propped up a little with those pillows.

one of the things i really miss from my thin & fit days is being able to sleep on my stomach... as well as how easy it was to flip from one side to the other back then!
1 year

What's your opinion on the movie feed?

HappyBigBelly:
Judging just from this thread, I’ll stick to my faves from the Coen Bros. and anything with Paul Giamatti in it :-)


i am going to pile on and see if we can redirect this into a paul giamatti appreciate thread, lol! smiley
1 year

What's your opinion on the movie feed?

Bloatedsodacan:
I remember watching it awhile ago and then coming back to it lmao. It's like a guilty pleasure movie to an extent, given it's a movie to really cover something like feederism.

Not saying it's like, a great movie on the topic though. Far from it. If anything it's just funny-


it is far worse than funny. it paints people who are part of this community as being sick, or worse, criminals. it doesn't have any nuance to it at all.

it is best forgotten, imo.
1 year

About your profile ...

Munchies:
It's very interesting to see how terminology has changed over time.


also the term "feederism" seems widespread, but i agree with the folks that say "feedism" is more accurate. it reflects that the feedist community is not limited to the feeder's perspective, or is not necessarily feeder-centric. it includes all of those other roles and perspectives, too.
1 year

About your profile ...

munchies, if laziness is really the biggest issue here, it could be solved just by changing the volume to "blank" or "undecided."

your comments around people learning about a community before diving head-first into it are a good observation... back when i first discovered the world of feedism, probably the late 90s, it was such a tiny online community (because most of the world was still offline at that point), this wasn't an issue because everything was so basic. there was dimensions online and maybe one or two other destinations, and the "glossary" was pretty up-front. now there are a lot of spaces with slightly different angles - ff isn't the same as curvage, which isn't the same as feabie, etc. etc... plus the plus-size, body acceptance, (etc. etc.) movements have all added layers of complexity and different lenses...

(it's not a bad thing at all, it's really blossomed in fact... but with that blossoming come opportunists, too...)
1 year

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.


keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.
1 year

Music where the singer loves fat bodies

maybe the best bbw video ever - skinny by lo-rider...

i'm not sure what the song is about, but the video is all about big, beautiful, confident women! 17 years old and still amazing!

youtu.be/eKUGltGwN3U
1 year

Music where the singer loves fat bodies

"fat" by kate yeager is a pretty powerful song about bigger bodies....

1 year

Music where the singer loves fat bodies

for those big tit lovers, especially those fluent in german, rammstein has your back....

1 year

Chastity pig - why the chapters stories?

@potbellysissy has recently been posting a story called "chastity pig." each chapter is being posted as a separate story, which i thought was odd.

i asked the question why in the story comments, and that comment just got deleted. so i am asking it here - why? because the same author has posted other stories in the usual format, with multiple chapters in the story.

question for the mods - are there any guidelines for authors on this sort of thing? seems kind of clickbaity to me.
1 year