I love to see women in loose shirts. It means they are leaving room for expansion.

If you receive money from any online money transfer service, it is taxable in the United States starting tax year 2022. If you sell something, then you need the receipt to show the original cost of what you paid. So, no more free food, and no more selling videos without paying tax on the money you make on them.

A job where "looks" aren't important. Perhaps as a model, or TV broadcaster.

Most jobs that give free food are relatively low paying jobs. If you are serious about gaining, you'll need a lot of money for food and clothes. So, I would choose a career that pays well. Just make sure it is a fat friendly career.

Most people can not lose weight, if they decide being big isn't for them, so it is a legitimate concern.

I hate to burst anyone's bubble, but not everyone gets breasts, not even women. I know a female over 400 pounds, and still an A cup.

I knew of a woman who was demanding money from BHM to feed them. So, not only would the men have to pay for food and new clothes, they would have to pay the person feeding them.

Well, admitting that you are looking for a man to support you, probably isn't helping. The fact that you are living in an area with not a lot of people isn't helping, and not having a photo or saying more than you are looking for someone isn't helping either.

So, you've been making women fat since the seventies?

I'm more of a gaining admirer, and an FA for sure. I've probably never made anyone fat in my life, but I like to chat about gaining, and just being a BBW. Most BBWs have either gained, or just gain weight naturally.

Luckily, I do not depend of FF or Feabie for my life's entertainment and enjoyment. I realize that being 70 years old and married does not make me very desirable. But I remain a member, and am glad to share my 50 years experience as an FA and a member of the size acceptance community to anyone who wants advice, or just wants to chat about it. I wish people happy birthday on Feabie.

But what really bugs me is that the definition of feeder seems to be changing from someone who encourages someone to eat and gain weight, to someone who sends money to someone claiming to be a feedee. On both website's profiles, I have made it as clear as day that I do not send money or food to anyone for any reason. This is to avoid the half hour chats back and forth which culminates in a request for money. It's a waste of time for both of us, because no matter how special someone thinks they are, sending money just isn't going to happen. So, like someone pointed out, profiles need to be read before chatting.