my gal likes me to get on top, she likes to feel the weight of my belly over her. but i don't last too long, i can't last on my knees very long.

when i am on my back, if she leans on me and forces her weight on my stomach/torso i have trouble breathing, so i end up gasping a little. rolling over is tough for me now, too, and she teases me about that a lot.

her teasing really turns me on, especially when she mentions how easy all of this activity was for me before i turned into such a fat, weak land whale.

it's not just a kink, it's not just a lifestyle... it's evolution!

i am not exactly sure, but i am guessing i was over 250 lbs.

this is a great conversation!

well into adulthood i was a gym guy, and it was a kind of lifestyle for me, as it is for many. some will call it being dedicated and disciplined, but really a lot of it just a routine. you just get used to it.

well into adulthood (i was 39 or 40?) i met someone who started to open my eyes to a different kind of lifestyle. i started to learn from her, the enjoyment of indulgence. food as pleasure rather than nourishment. while it wasn't a straight line, and there was some self doubt and angst along the path, what i learned eventually was that this other lifestyle brought me more joy than the gym grind i'd been following for decades.

that, to me, is the great advantage, being fat is kind of an ancillary perk (and sometimes an unpleasant consequence, but by and large it is positive).

getting fat also helped me discover my submissive side, i am not sure how that fits in.

when i read the title i thought it referred to an issue with achieving an erection... i can get it up just fine, it's just buried in my fupa even when it's hard.

for sure it limits the positions and amount of penetration that is possible, but to be honest having as big a gut as i have, that is limiting too.

but if you think penetration with a penis is the only way to pleasure your partner, whoa, you have soooo much to learn!

yeah, these are classics - i can rewatch any of these infinitely i think!

you are a really talented artist! those pieces are really incredible.

do you paint digitally or do you use traditional media?

never doubt the power of anal stimulation - there are more nerve endings down there than just about anywhere!

anyone who has avoided anal play because they thinks it is gross needs to have a good wash and then dive in (gently!) and open their mind (and sphincter!).

enjoy the discovery of this new realm of pleasure.

really cool animations! you have a real talent. i especially liked the first one. animation opens up a world of possibility for feedism fantasies, it has always kind of surprised me how little it has been taken advantage of - especially with how many fa "origin stories" start with seeing a cartoon as a kid where a character got fat!

when i get out of breath and have to sit down when walking, and when i can't reach to tie my shoes - that kind of stuff is not arousing to me as i am trying to get through my day. when i have trouble using a public rest room, or cleaning up after, definitely not hot.

when i am in a more relaxed setting, and i can't reach something because my big belly is in the way, yeah that can be a little hot, if i am honest.

on the weekend at the beach, i couldn't get up off the ground without help from amazingem. at first it was not hot, but when she started to tease me and tell me what a beached helpless whale i'd become, essentially asserting her dominance in a gentle way, then it became a more arousing moment.

so i think context matters a lot.