LoraDayton


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LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
The film is literally called THE WHALE. A big, blubbery, mammal that must consume literally TONS of food to survive. It's a reference to Moby Dick.

Literally what. Lol. How are you even say...
LoraDayton 1 year
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you’re fine china
Sorry my post got cut off:

TL;DR: you want to be secretive, insist you are not who you say you are, have "a female friend" to carry your emotional load that you are also sexually attracted to bu...
LoraDayton 1 year
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you’re fine china
Nice try, but if you're going to mansplain your own poor use of language to a woman that you are comparing to objects: you are using a metaphor. You did not say that women are *like* fine china...
LoraDayton 1 year
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you’re fine china
The reason he devalues me as not "classy" is because I am the type who shares photos of myself that he doesn't approve of but feels entitled to, and knows I would never do it for him specifically. ...
LoraDayton 1 year
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you’re fine china
My point was that you treat women like objects, not actual people, and you need to put in to these communities what you want out of them.You are the one broadbrushing ones as a group that you d...
LoraDayton 1 year
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subcutaneous fat after weight loss
Her body's changes are not about you. Stop making them about you. "I love her but I want this easier on ME" means your love of her is conditional. It means there is, in fact, a limit to your "s...
LoraDayton 1 year
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you’re fine china
"female friend to confide in" is using us as your emotional laborer. We're HUMANS. We do not exist solely for *your* comfort, entertainment, or companionship. The fact that you have the nerve t...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Literally explaining how it is the opposite of good and actually very harmful to fat people (and not subjectively) so why am I not surprised that you come in here, add absolutely nothing of value t...
LoraDayton 1 year
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audiobooks for feedist fiction
The feedist community is super active there!
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
I mean my point here is that I literally did not tell him not to say it. I can't and won't stop anybody from saying anything like that I was literally just trying to point out like hey when we use ...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Okay, and? This is a forum not a private message. Kind of interesting you are so insistent on silencing a woman lol. I also ended my end of the conversation. If you're going to attack my character ...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
It's almost like because this form is full of people who don't understand boundaries. It's almost like people have to constantly remind others that their actual human beings. What a shocker!

I'm...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Where did I judge you? I'm simply asking you questions. Based on your own information that you provided.

You yourself said initiated your conversation with no other information that that you cal...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
I didn't say you couldn't. I literally said that ascribing your health to your size is by definition fat phobic. Size is not a determinant of health. And it really should make you think twice that ...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
A majority of fat fetishists (*particularly* ones who have never been fat) are inherently fatphobic and/or center their fetish around it. So yeah. The parallels aren't remotely surprising becau...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
Using the term "healthy sized" is actually fatphobic. Size is not determinant of health.

Y'all I'm begging you to look into this and start understanding just how insidious it is.

I don't know...
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
The point is that the story itself it fatphobic. Eg that fatness is equal to internalized self hatred. It's irredeemably bad.
LoraDayton 1 year
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has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?
It is *horrifically* fatphobic. The writer literally uses a fat person as a analogy to processing internalized homophobia.

Even just using a fat suit on a non-fat actor is inexcusably fatphobic...
LoraDayton 1 year
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audiobooks for feedist fiction
You can make it a video and still put it on da. There are a few audio makers that do that.
LoraDayton 1 year
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loving your body in public
Honestly, take a lot of what they say with a grain of salt. Of course people who truly are just comfortable as they are exist in public and are also members here, but many aren't even if they say t...
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