A Controled Shift in Lifestyle

Chapter 1 - I Met Harry

I met Harry at the gym; we were the two biggest guys in there: strong & tall. I knew that I liked him immediately. Unlike me, he was covered with tattoos but besides that, we were a lot alike. In great shape with huge bulging muscles; liked keeping and growing our muscles and spending time at the gym. We quickly became gym buddies and as time went on we became more than just buddies. It was when we got together that things started to change, so subtly.

We were both dominant guys and that did cause a bit of tension. We took turns being on top and that worked fine at first but Harry soon began shifting that equilibrium in his favour. As months went by in this relationship, I spent less and less time on the top until it ceased being an option and it became settled what our roles were. Outside of the bedroom Harry was certainly taking a dominant role over me too. Decisions that we would have made together were more and more his to decide. It happened so subtly that I didn't see these changes at the time.

It wasn't just control it was dominance and three years down the line he could suggest anything and I'd go along with him. With his grasp on dominance secure it was only a matter of time before more changes began. We were still equals in the physique department by this time but Harry saw to that on his mission to turn me into his perfect sub. He started suggesting new supplements, then a new meal plan for me he prepped it all for me and I just sat back and let him.

We had been going to the gym seven days a week together, but seven became six as I stayed home. By the time we reached five years together, I was staying home more often than not and I didn't go at all. He took hold of my workout plans shifting the exercise I did away from weights and more towards cardio. My muscles were shrinking and, although still quite well muscled he became the bigger man.

Then he made the move that hammered the nail in the coffin. He proposed. I was gushing as he made plans. Booking things, picking things out, the budget, I was non-the-wiser. This is how he played it, money for the wedding, to get me to give up my gym membership "temporarily" and it worked.  I stayed home, he hit the gym. My muscles shrank while his grew. He was in control, and I wasn't.