I have to agree. But I assume to varying degrees. For example, I am sure their are a lot of women that all of a sudden gain weight and say screw it after battling for a while and chose to just let go and get fatter enjoying themselves, obviously this helps if the have a SO that is fine with them gaining or if they are single have other GF’s that are bigger themselves and they binge pig out together.
I am also sure there are a lot more women that are actual feedees but have not tapped into it or really discovered how much they are into it yet.
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I can only say from my particular experience with my wife. She liked when I gained a bunch of weight and seemed to feel more secure and in fact continued gaining herself right alongside me to her heaviest ever during this time.
I never thought she would like me with a big fat gut, but she not only initiated sex all the time when I got fat but she was so much more secure with her way fatter figure making love and throwing her extra weight around in the bed. She orgasmed more every love making session and I have to imagine it had something to do with my newly packed on 40-50 lbs. on my big gut.
3 years
The gut definitely gets in the way bending over.
3 years
Edxl:
Maybe you could try joking something like "With all this stuff you are baking for me you could really make me fat -- but I'm not doing it without you. Eat half of your own baking, kitchen-witch!" and goofily chase her with a muffin or whatever.
But that joking moment might just open up the conversation a bit more.
Exactly this - But it does seem more like she is wanting to fatten you.
Tell her if she keeps baking like this she is going to have one Fat boyfriend.
Tell her you love her baking but pretty soon you might not be able to see you toes, while palming and patting and exaggerated bloated gut.
If she has feeder tendencies she should be dripping wet after you talk like this.
3 years
biggerthebetter:
Has anyone noticed that the fatter you get the more food you want? It appears that weight gain and an increased appetite go hand in hand.
That coupled with the fact, the fatter you get the more excited you get which makes you want to eat more to get fatter. Eat, get turned on, eat more, get turned on……until you need so much as mentioned stuffing the increasing gut and desire…..will make you fatter than you ever imagined!
3 years
Bringing back an older great thread -
As someone early on mentioned a Korean friend of his being a feeder. It is definitely well reported that Korean and Asian for that matter women really do have a desire for blowing up their husbands. One of my wife’s friends is no accepting to this rule. Her husband went from 150 + lbs. while they were still dating to easily 250 lbs. the last time I saw him he was in the 400 lb. range. This happened to be quite a long time ago but I would say he went from 150 lbs. - 400 lbs. in less then 6 years. These women love to cook some nice fattening Korean dishes for their husbands and love to inflate them massively. I heard it kind of starts with the American boyfriends and husbands not used to always eating rice at every meal not to mention some of their friend dishes.
My wife had always tried watching her weight even though I always encouraged her to put on more weight and become more full figured. She has a big sweet tooth and after her appetite starts to increase with larger meals she doesn’t give up her deserts afterwards and starts to pack on the lbs. the problem is after she puts on a good 15-20 lbs. that starts to show up really nicely on her 5’ 3” frame, her discipline forced her to watch it and either maintains or slowly loses the new lbs. I began to become frustrated by this. So I did exactly what other have mentioned and started cooking for us and stocking the freezer and pantry with all her fattening favorite ice cream and snacks. She settled right in and began eating and eating everything I prepared for her and loving all her extra deserts and snacks. She kept eating and gaining and seemed to surpass her typical weight plateau. What I didn’t realize is I was indulging in all these sweets I was buying for her also, even when I have never had a sweet tooth before. Every evening a huge fattening dinner with multiple servings for both of us and then retiring to the couch to watch some net flix with a bowl of ice cream on each of our laps and then when finished my wife would come back with some chocolates and a box of Oreos and plop them between us. After several months of not realizing I was doing this and being mesmerized by watching my wife inflate past her highest weight ever I now had a huge gut sitting on my lap looking like I was 9 months pregnant.
Not only did my wife not comment or say anything about my nearly 45 lb. gain that was all in my new huge gut sticking so far out in front of me, but she would come home from the grocery store with an obscene amount of fattening Ben n Jerry’s, Oreos chocolates and say to me “I bought all your favorites for you”. So, all of a sudden my wife didn’t care how fat she was and becoming fatter more and more every day eating like this but was fattening me up way more than her now and she seemed happier than ever.
I didn’t know if something changed in her or she was totally fine with getting fatter and fatter now that I was big and fat now.
I almost think that women definitely have feeder tendencies even though they have not taped into them or they all of a sudden develop the desire when it happens. Here was this woman who when she was my girlfriend and even early on in our marriage said if I ever get fat she was going to put me in a diet. I don’t think that it could have happened being an athletic gym styled guy at the time. Fast forward to later in our marriage and her husband now having a gut sticking out in front of him looking 15 months pregnant now pushing 270 lbs. and her bringing over plate after plate of her fabulous fattening lasagna before I even finished my last plate and then plopping obscenely huge bowls of ice cream on my lap or what was left of it sitting on the couch. Not to mention herself fattening up to uncharted territory eating close to as much as her newly fattened up huge husband.
Who know’s
3 years
Stuffing to stretch out your belly!
This will stretch your belly out something fierce and after 2+ weeks you will be eating so much more than you ever thought you could. After a month or more you won’t be able to eat enough to ever feel full and you will develop hunger pangs if you don’t fill to the same capacity or more.
Do this daily for several weeks -
Stuff at every meal followed by fattening deserts (you will soon crave sweets even if you never have before) then when fill of eating milkshakes and or HC, then followed by Milk and then water….after every meal of possible. Do this daily. You will notice as mentioned you not only crave sweets but more and more fattening foods. Fast food heavy carb and calorie Kaiden foods and need chocolate and desserts all the time even after breakfast you will crave if you train your body to eat and want all the time.
One e your belly is stretched out you will become a bottomless pit!
Keep in mind it will take a lot of discipline when you are full, this why you switch to liquid calories after you are tired of chewing. No matter how full you seem from eating you will be surprised how easy and fun it is to still suck down a few fattening shakes and then milk and then water for maximum stretch and bloating.
Trust me
3 years
Mutual Gaining is so sexy and intimate.
I never really was into skinny women and I didn’t grow a big belly until I was married for many years.
Mutual Gaining #1
3 years
Poet2:
I’ve been with my gf for around 4 years. When we met she was around 5’4” and 140 lbs. I recall her saying at that time “Can you believe that I was 180lbs?” I think that she was subconsciously telling me that I was meeting the thin version of her.
That is completely sexy to think about, she was trying to let you know it may not be long till she is back at 180lbs. or heavier.
She started to gain weight a few weeks after we met.
Thus why she told you because she knew she would be packing th lbs. right back on line a good fatty does.
Having had gained weight in the past myself. I’ve done a body recomposition since but at one time it was all in my belly. It took a long time to get rid of the belly because I wasn’t actively trying to. I warned her to take care of it now or it’s going to become hard much later.
Do you want her to get fatter or were you trying to tell her in advance she may become really fat at the rate she is going?
I mention this because there’s a cognitive dissonance there. On the one hand she wants to be skinny and on the other hand she’s not actively trying to lose weight.
She is a good gaining girlfriend, that is a big + in my book.
If ça i had to guess I think that she’s probably around 190 lbs now. I think that she looks better and I’ve told told her so but I support her either way.
Im 5’ 9” and 185 lbs up from 174 lbs at the end of last year. We’re moving in together in a few months and I notice that she’s been ordering out Pizza a lot more then we have in the past and orders one for me. She’s also been cooking for me a lot more. The other day I mentioned on purpose that I’m at my heaviest. I don’t have a gut and if I had to put a label on it I’m chunky.
The reason why I post this is because she didn’t like that her ex husband was over weight. I feel conflicted because I feel better when I’m heavier. I feel more grounded like I like having a larger behind, legs, arms etc. feel less tired, I enjoy my gf’s cooking but I recall the comments years ago when I had a belly. Some people and not all commented that I put on weight or that I was fat. I’m posting this for advice on how you deal with similar comments.
I wouldn’t put much weight (pun intended) on the fact she mentioned her ex was overweight and she didn’t like it. Most ex’s are not liked for one reason or another and usually more stuff gets piled on when they are an ex. My wife alluded to the same thing but as we had been married for many years and I grew the biggest gut she seemed to be not only turned on by how big I got but seemed to want to fe me even bigger. Not to mention she couldn’t stop making love to me all the time. Make sure your Gf feels like she is the one that is feeding you Fat and she will love it. Not to mention if she will feel much more secure with you having a big ole gut if she is getting fatter and fatter at the same time. Believe me, I would have never thought my wife would have desired me more with a 55” belly sticking out in front of me then when she met me with ripped abs….but she certainly wanted and initiated sex all the time when I developed my huge gut.
3 years
issabelly:
Yeah, as someone who has gained a noticeable amount of weight over the past few years, I've encountered some of the same behavior. If anything it seems like since I'm bigger men are more willing to show interest and hit on me, but I think part of that is the assumption that I might have lower self esteem and reciprocate their interest. I'm not complaining, because in many ways I like my life better since I gained, but it is harder to find a partner who seems like they are more interested in a serious relationship. I definitely think there's a sort of paradox between men finding curvier women to be sexually attractive and those same men having been conditioned to what they're told to think is attractive.
This is well said! When my wife gained to her highest weight at the time a couple years after having our three babies. She seemed to get hit on way more than ever before. For reference she is 5’ 3” and was just over 200 lbs. at the time. But it seemed everywhere we would go if I left her alone for a minute: at the mall when she was just leaving a store a guy would try and talk to her, or even a new UPS deliverer would stay and try talking to her after handing her a package etc etc. I witnessed this and totally understood but I didn’t think she noticed until she commented to me one day that there must be a lot of guys like me out there because since she has become so fat, guys continually chat her up and hit on her all the time now…..she them said “I guess I look really hot as a fatty”.
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