BigButt:@southernbell77 @johnxyz Well she pretty much eats what I serve her. So it (her weight) IS, to some degree my responsibility I think.
If I bring up food more often, she�ll eat more often. Id I decide to cook with lots of cheese, her butt�ll get bigger.
Is it �let her do what she wants� if I serve her bigger portions?
Also, I know you cannot order people like cars. Yet talking about how I feel can never hurt, an I right?
@ Its Bubba Jay
The bad thing is, that I am confused about whether I think her body gets hotter and hotter (due to bigger thighs for example by the logic �more bigger is better�

, or she�s sliding out of that idealized range.
I don�t do anything morally wrong by serving her bigger or smaller portions, but still have to decide on how to act.
Keep her in that idealized range or not?
If I still CAN affect her weight through that...
@HappyBigBoy Are you being sarcastic or not? I cannot tell for sure ^^