Talk about friends reactions to seeing you gained alot of weight in such a short time go into de

If family and friends are generally confident in their own shape, it tends to be a non-issue. My own mother makes comments about my belly from time to time, but it's no big deal. I'm just a ball belly and macaroni arms smiley My wife has been mostly overweight since puberty many years ago, so it's kinda just accepted.
6 years

Be carefull with what you wish for

BigButt:
@southernbell77 @johnxyz Well she pretty much eats what I serve her. So it (her weight) IS, to some degree my responsibility I think.

If I bring up food more often, she�ll eat more often. Id I decide to cook with lots of cheese, her butt�ll get bigger.

Is it �let her do what she wants� if I serve her bigger portions?

Also, I know you cannot order people like cars. Yet talking about how I feel can never hurt, an I right?

@ Its Bubba Jay

The bad thing is, that I am confused about whether I think her body gets hotter and hotter (due to bigger thighs for example by the logic �more bigger is better�smiley, or she�s sliding out of that idealized range.

I don�t do anything morally wrong by serving her bigger or smaller portions, but still have to decide on how to act.

Keep her in that idealized range or not?

If I still CAN affect her weight through that...

@HappyBigBoy Are you being sarcastic or not? I cannot tell for sure ^^


No sarcasm intended :-) I'm loving every minute of being an FA hubby :-)
6 years

Any gaining ladies been to the beach yet this summer?

Bigfatbellyfan:
Hellz ya!

My lady had been rocking a sexy one piece for the past year. A trip to Torrid and I asked her to try on a bikini. She bought it to my surprise. Strutted her stuff at the local pool later that week.

She's put on a fair amount of weight and her body has filled out in such a marvelous manner. *thanks to me*


Awesome indeed! Makes lovin' an touchin' in the water that much more enjoyable, too, for anyone else who likes to hold their lover as they bob up and down in the water :-)
6 years

Be carefull with what you wish for

Been reading these threads on here for years. They never get old! Just as exciting to read as anything.
6 years

Any gaining ladies been to the beach yet this summer?

My wife debuted her new bikini top this past weekend. Filled out every inch of her 320-pound frame smiley Confidence is very sexy!
6 years

Round bellied ladies! experiences?

Hazel439:
I have had it quite a few times my favourite was I had a long day at work and I had been stuffing my face at my desk all day my belly was looking rather pregnant like o was ready to pop and I was getting the bus and some fairly old but not to old man stood up and gave me his seat but as he did put his hand on my belly rubbed it as I sat down and asked boy or girl I just replied getting fat and he laughed I think he thought I was joking haha


Nice :-) Was that your first public belly rub?
6 years

Round bellied ladies! experiences?

Shellie:
I have been out and about doing various shopping, and have had complete strangers approach me, mistaking me as being pregnant. I don't really mind, and kinda even enjoy it. LoL


Hot sounding indeed! New to just say nah, I'm just enjoying getting fat!
6 years

Bra-shopping with the wife....

sweetfattie:
It's awful trying to find fat lady bras that fit and don't cost a fortune! Check Lane Bryant and Torrid around January, their bras usually go on sale then. Also check at the end of a season if your wife is okay with seasonal colors and prints, those go on sale when the store needs to make room for the new season's stuff.


Thanks! Appreciate it! She's a fan of darker colors, but a sale is a sale, right?
6 years

Bra-shopping with the wife....

My better half is a 46DDD and always, always, always has trouble finding the right size when the time comes to buy a new one. I've been along for this trip before, but decided to post that WOW it's difficult to find one that's not nearly $80. We got lucky and found one at Torrid for about $50. Happy to help her, though, as nothing beats a lady with soft chest smiley
6 years

When food falls on your belly

My wife's 46 DDD chest is basically a crumb and sauce catcher when she eats. Cute as hell smiley
6 years