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we got a problem
Luckily, I do not depend of FF or Feabie for my life's entertainment and enjoyment. I realize that being 70 years old and married does not make me very desirable. But I remain a member, and am gl...
we got a problem
Luckily, I do not depend of FF or Feabie for my life's entertainment and enjoyment. I realize that being 70 years old and married does not make me very desirable. But I remain a member, and am gl...
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older people with this fetish
Before the Internet, and when I was single, I would use the print dating ads, and just say that I was looking for someone overweight. Later, BBW magazine had a "Friendship Express," where fat peop...
older people with this fetish
Before the Internet, and when I was single, I would use the print dating ads, and just say that I was looking for someone overweight. Later, BBW magazine had a "Friendship Express," where fat peop...
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older people with this fetish
Well, as far as I know, NAAFA was the first organization for large people and their admirers. This started in 1969. They have never condoned gaining on purpose however. There was a song about Fee...
older people with this fetish
Well, as far as I know, NAAFA was the first organization for large people and their admirers. This started in 1969. They have never condoned gaining on purpose however. There was a song about Fee...
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a coworker stealing your personal belongings
The book is not worth losing your job over. Either speak to her politely, or bring it to a superior's attention. Don't do anything worse to her, or she will be the victim, and you will be the per...
a coworker stealing your personal belongings
The book is not worth losing your job over. Either speak to her politely, or bring it to a superior's attention. Don't do anything worse to her, or she will be the victim, and you will be the per...
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temporary gaining?
Most weight gained is permanent. Fat cells don't disappear, they just shrink. It is the tendency for the cells to return to normal size. I know a lot of 400 pound people who started out planning t...
temporary gaining?
Most weight gained is permanent. Fat cells don't disappear, they just shrink. It is the tendency for the cells to return to normal size. I know a lot of 400 pound people who started out planning t...
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peace with declined life expectancy? *trigger warning*
When you are 20, and having a life expectancy until 60 is no big deal. However, when you are 59, and having a life expectancy to 60, is a big deal.
peace with declined life expectancy? *trigger warning*
When you are 20, and having a life expectancy until 60 is no big deal. However, when you are 59, and having a life expectancy to 60, is a big deal.
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too rude people on this site...
This is not real life, this is the Internet. You might find someone you hit it off with, or you may not. I've never really made friends here, but I do not expect to find friends when I am 70 year...
too rude people on this site...
This is not real life, this is the Internet. You might find someone you hit it off with, or you may not. I've never really made friends here, but I do not expect to find friends when I am 70 year...
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how can i approach my partner
You just joke and kid around. While eating in a restaurant, you say something like, "if I have dessert, I'll look like her." (point out a very fat woman.) See what he says. It sounds like he is a...
how can i approach my partner
You just joke and kid around. While eating in a restaurant, you say something like, "if I have dessert, I'll look like her." (point out a very fat woman.) See what he says. It sounds like he is a...
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weight loss product ads on mobile - rant and questions
The FDA only makes sure the medicine is safe. They have no say whether the medicine works or not. Most ads have a disclaimer that the FDA has not evaluated the effectiveness of it. This pretty mu...
weight loss product ads on mobile - rant and questions
The FDA only makes sure the medicine is safe. They have no say whether the medicine works or not. Most ads have a disclaimer that the FDA has not evaluated the effectiveness of it. This pretty mu...
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dealing with this fetish as i start dating again
I think one problem, is that most FA's do not know themselves if they can be in a relationship with a thin person. Will the personality, looks, politics, and interests be enough? Or will the FA h...
dealing with this fetish as i start dating again
I think one problem, is that most FA's do not know themselves if they can be in a relationship with a thin person. Will the personality, looks, politics, and interests be enough? Or will the FA h...
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want to be 600lbs by 30
I hate to join the other people, but there are far fewer female feeders than male. This person will not only have to feed you, pay for all of the food, and support you, since you have never wo...
want to be 600lbs by 30
I hate to join the other people, but there are far fewer female feeders than male. This person will not only have to feed you, pay for all of the food, and support you, since you have never wo...
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is it fair to tell someone you’re into their size; even if you know they’re not happy
It depends on how you word it. If you keep touching his fat, and tell him how much it turns you on, it might be a problem. If you tell him you don't mind larger men, then it might make him feel m...
is it fair to tell someone you’re into their size; even if you know they’re not happy
It depends on how you word it. If you keep touching his fat, and tell him how much it turns you on, it might be a problem. If you tell him you don't mind larger men, then it might make him feel m...
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gaining from 30-35yrs old stopping point
You can ask some of the people here about stopping once you reach a goal. For many people that is just physically and mentally impossible. So, keep that in mind as you are gaining. I know one wo...
gaining from 30-35yrs old stopping point
You can ask some of the people here about stopping once you reach a goal. For many people that is just physically and mentally impossible. So, keep that in mind as you are gaining. I know one wo...
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what would my daily life be like at 800+ lbs?
Living with your parents isn't going to help if you outlive them. Although at 800 pounds, there is probably a good chance that you won't. How do your parents feel about taking care of you for the...
what would my daily life be like at 800+ lbs?
Living with your parents isn't going to help if you outlive them. Although at 800 pounds, there is probably a good chance that you won't. How do your parents feel about taking care of you for the...
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i got nearly scammed
The thinking that some people have, that you have to pay to chat with someone, makes me wonder what would happen if this happened everywhere. I mean, if I walked around the neighborhood, and I sai...
i got nearly scammed
The thinking that some people have, that you have to pay to chat with someone, makes me wonder what would happen if this happened everywhere. I mean, if I walked around the neighborhood, and I sai...
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area in the us with the most gainers/feeders/fas?
Nobody knows where the fattest states really are. It's not like someone asked people what they weigh. They use criteria like the proportion of fast food restaurants to gyms. They do not take int...
area in the us with the most gainers/feeders/fas?
Nobody knows where the fattest states really are. It's not like someone asked people what they weigh. They use criteria like the proportion of fast food restaurants to gyms. They do not take int...
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first thing you want to do once covid is over?
Go to a concert. I have a ton of tickets for concerts that have been postponed. Some for more than 2 years.
first thing you want to do once covid is over?
Go to a concert. I have a ton of tickets for concerts that have been postponed. Some for more than 2 years.
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songs about fatties
I like Mrs. Goldfarb by Alan Sherman. Definitely a feeder's song.
songs about fatties
I like Mrs. Goldfarb by Alan Sherman. Definitely a feeder's song.