Munchies:
Would be nice if belly windows were a thing. Like boob windows, but for guts.
It would be extra hot if seeing fat guys with their guts out was culturally normal in some country.
HappyBigBelly:
It’s interesting you mention boob windows, as I’ve seen more and more of them on women lately. Thin women, though.
I’d love to see belly windows become promoted and worn by our larger ladies in society :-)
Isn’t that just a crop top? Lol I’ve definitely seen some beautifully chubby bellies on display
3 years
Probably at first, just be very complimentary of her figure and body. Not just with words but with actions and your hands. A lot of girls love their body being rubbed lovingly. At some point the topic of weight will come up and if she talks about “I should lose weight” you can just very honestly tell her you’ll miss her curvy softness - or something along those lines.
It’s generally a process that happens over time - especially if she’s been criticized by others. People typically need time to process and reconcile an idea one step at a time. Be patient with her, tell her more as she’s ready to hear it, which might not be as fast as you want to tell her. Communication and honesty are important. You could do a little fact finding here or there as opportunities present themselves. Maybe an article you read or news story can spark a conversation that isn’t about her weight, but gets her sharing opinions or feelings about chubby people or weight loss or something. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Don’t be afraid to offer her seconds or playfully tease her for not finishing the last bite. Nothing intense of course. Don’t make her feel obligated or self conscious. Down the road, when you tell her you like her chubby and would enjoy her getting bigger, she’ll be able to think back and the fact that you never encourage her to stop or diet and have always offered more. That will help her see you are being genuine and not just saying it to be nice.
Just some ideas. Think about her personality and how she responds to things and that should also help you know what to say and when to say it. You want her to feel loved and accepted, not like she’s flawed or something for being smaller than you’d like
3 years
Domdaddy94:
Anyone else turned on by pregnant bellies? Or into the idea of being pregnant? The idea of a chubby pregnant girl is my dream.
I was wondering if there is anyone else here that's into it!
Adktomcat:
Oh definitely and watching the fatile on and belly expand and having a fat baby after as a result of all her stuffing and gluttony.
Definitely!
3 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
It's an amazing feeling. In College, I couldn't help but feel smitten. It was bittersweet as some pregnant students I befriended did not make it back (before I graduated, if at all). It's a great feeling to pamper, spoil or provide. With recent incidents at baby showers, I would advise the preg-lovers out there to choose your friends wisely.
Apparently I missed that memo. What’s been going on at baby showers?
3 years
I don’t know if FF does any targeted advertising but there might be a lot of closeted FA people there who would love to discover this site
3 years
Have you said anything complimentary to him yet, like you love his size, or how he’s not afraid to enjoy a good meal? If so, how did he respond? Might give you an idea on how receptive he might be
4 years
Complicity:
OMG
Somehow it never occurred to me to check this in the last several months, but I just calculated his BMI. I'm kind of obsessed with numbers, so this is particularly exciting.
He's actually in the overweight range now!!! I nearly shrieked when I saw it, this is insanely exciting to me. 25.7 at the moment!
And in other exciting news,
I was getting ready for us to go out the other night and he was lying in bed, and out of the blue, played with his gut and called out to me to look at how big it was! He said that now he's "shooting for 190.. maybe even.. *pause*.. 200..?"
This is unbelievably exciting to me..
Wow, he’s really coming around! (Not to be confused with becoming round, which might also be true soon lol) I’m happy for you and him. He’s seeing that’s it’s not so bad and apparently even fun?
And yes, numbers rock! I love seeing 12:34 on the clock or other patterns like 369 on the scales, as well as calculating gains, fatness and other number fun 🙂
4 years
Feedmesqueezeme:
I don’t play the tournaments as I don’t like playing competitively but I’ve been to Warhammer world when tournaments have been going on. I play Aeronautica Imperialis and Warhammer Underworlds
Aeronautica Imperialis? Never heard of it but the name intrigues me!
4 years
Gettingfatter25:
I am fat pig for life. My boyfriend just asked if I would be willing to do a weekly weigh in to make sure I am gaining. I usually try and avoid the scale but he really wants me to do it.
You always have the option to stop at any time, so no harm in experimenting and trying it out. Maybe stepping on the scale will become something you look forward to as well. If not, you can negotiate with him, offer every other week or once a month. If this ever becomes stressful to you, in a negative way, communicate with him. He wants you to be happy and enjoy life. If his excitement and enthusiasm gets the better of him and you feel pressured, let him know before you start resenting him. This should be fun and enjoyable for both of you 🙂
4 years
Bicepsual:
Damn. The closest I ever get to this is when I run to the store late at night sometimes the wife will yell "AND DO NOT GET ME ANY FOOD!"
I'll bring home 3 giant sushi rolls as a mean joke.
"I'M NOT EATING THOSE." (they sit on the kitchen counter)
One hour later, the empty packages are sitting next to the couch. "Those were really good. Thank you."
LOL.She just has to feel like she’s “trying” and now it’s your fault. I bet she’s secretly hoping you do bring something home. She’d be disappointed if you didn’t
4 years
