crudeatoms:
Believe it or not, I used to suffer from this. That might surprise anyone who's seen my dA library - around 250 stories and counting.
As such, you can trust that my advice works for at least one person...
The Pomodoro Technique is great for writing productively. It's especially great for erotica. If you want to lose yourself in fantasy and enjoy some kinky daydreaming... you can't! Write during writing time and save that for the breaks.
It's a small change but it works wonders for me. I went from struggling to write three paragraphs a day to writing ~1000 words in 30 minutes, mostly using this technique.
FaveBig:
I definitely will check this technique out, thanks for the advice!
If evolutionary theory is true, erotica writers would have three hands.
It’s good that you’re horny. It’s even better if your own writing is turning you on because that means it will also probably arouse your readers.
Try delaying the gratification. Let your horniness grow and guide you. Set up a rewards system — pleasure once you’ve written so many words or chapters.
This fetish often involves orgasm control. Be your own dominant demanding master/mistress and don’t let yourself off easily. Punish yourself a little.
Being horny is what you want your readers to achieve. Creating that tension — and releasing it — while writing erotica is the best way to be productive and have fun.
