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feeders who got fat: share your story!
my experience was very similar - i have posted about it elsewhere in the forums, so i'll just summarize my experience: i was a fit, athletic feeder from my 20s and thru all of my 30s. it was wh...

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tracking calories
i use fatsecret.com to track my calories consumed and burned (it's free, and the pick list of foods and restaurants is extensive which makes it fast for me):



and if you want to see what the ...

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what is the best form of communication besides ff messages?
omg, i practically spit out my coffee when i read that - perfect!!!

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how often do you weigh yourself?
just when i am curious, or something tells me that there might have been a change (like had to go to the next hole in my belt), etc.

i have been in relationships in the past where we scheduled w...

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when did your appetite increase?
that is a really great point - the pandemic had a big impact on my eating habits, too.

i'm not sure if it was stress, or just access - being at home, having continual access to food and sna...

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when did your appetite increase?
my appetite grew gradually over time. at first i just had to de-program myself from the thought of "enough," just letting myself eat to capacity instead of thinking about portion size.

once i wa...

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toronto meet-up post covid19?
if nothing formal is getting organized, amazingem and i are looking to have something small in toronto late this summer - maybe august or september?

nothing big, just a small gathering for drin...

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how long have you been on ff
hey, that is an idea - in addition to introducing ourselves, how about also mentioning what you weighed (or think you might have weighed) when you joined vs now?

i have put on almost 200 lbs...

happy canada day to all my canadian friends!

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how long have you been on ff
i lurked occasionally over the years, but i only got my account about 4 years ago i think. i ended up meeting some pretty wonderful people and some great friends! so i stayed.

there is a tran...

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past the point of no return
well my weight finally crept up to 350. i am still not trying to gain, but we've had some weeks of celebration and conscious over-indulgence so, ahem, it wasn't really a shock.

i like my body as...

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lower back pain
this is really good advice - especially cooling and heating! that helps a lot.

i have gotten into some yoga (i am a total newb, though) and some core exercises for just this reason. i don't ...

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“damn, i’m fat”
oooh, that stung!

and, ahem, something about people in glass houses and throwing rocks...

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“damn, i’m fat”
yeah, not being able to pull up shorts that i wore last summer over my hips/butt... that was a good reminder that i might have gotten a little fat.

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happy pride month, ff!
hey trans people - we want to celebrate you!

today - thursday, june 24th - for toronto pride you can join the live stream of "F*ck Shit Up! A Trans and Non- Binary Cabaret" at 4:30-5:30 (eastern...

happy father's day to all the ff dads... it's a bit of a non-holiday to me, but it is nice to be getting spoiled by my gals today!

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happy pride month, ff!
amazingem mentioned off-hand that there wasn't any activity on ff related to june's pride month, and she's right! so here's a happy #pride post!

pride is a big deal here in toronto - and this is...

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do chubby guys just refuse to put themselves out there due to insecurity?
i met my girlfriend on wooplus, so i can attest that it works, at least some of the time! but i didn't get as much "traffic" as i am sure many others do, but some of that may just be due to my...