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average daily calories?
my girlfriend encouraged me to track the calories i consume and burn using this website:
last week i cut out beer and some treats, but i was still averaging 4800-5200 calories a day.
6000 is ...
average daily calories?
my girlfriend encouraged me to track the calories i consume and burn using this website:
last week i cut out beer and some treats, but i was still averaging 4800-5200 calories a day.
6000 is ...
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opinions on fit people?
i used to be a fit person, worked out at a gym regularly for many years. i have always been attracted to fat partners, though not exclusively.
when i started getting fat i was with a larger ...
opinions on fit people?
i used to be a fit person, worked out at a gym regularly for many years. i have always been attracted to fat partners, though not exclusively.
when i started getting fat i was with a larger ...
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iām so confused and need guidance
this is really great perspective and advice, ditzy.
as an old guy now, i can attest the level of change that ditzy talks about is common... and not just between 17 and 21, but for me those c...
iām so confused and need guidance
this is really great perspective and advice, ditzy.
as an old guy now, i can attest the level of change that ditzy talks about is common... and not just between 17 and 21, but for me those c...
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pros of getting fat?
for me it was getting fat that eventually allowed me (to give myself) the freedom to eat without second guessing... indulge in what i want, when i want, how much i want. just accept the pleasure of...
pros of getting fat?
for me it was getting fat that eventually allowed me (to give myself) the freedom to eat without second guessing... indulge in what i want, when i want, how much i want. just accept the pleasure of...
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what made you decide to get fat?
yes - this is exactly it!
so, we split up (amicably) about a year ago. what is really interesting now is that those habits are still with me - maybe more now, having worked at home for the l...
what made you decide to get fat?
yes - this is exactly it!
so, we split up (amicably) about a year ago. what is really interesting now is that those habits are still with me - maybe more now, having worked at home for the l...
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past the point of no return
lol! i think it got pretty out of hand about 100 lbs ago!
but i know what you mean.
a couple days in with no muffins, cookies or beer... i am already looking forward to this week being ...
past the point of no return
lol! i think it got pretty out of hand about 100 lbs ago!

a couple days in with no muffins, cookies or beer... i am already looking forward to this week being ...
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what made you decide to get fat?
yes, i think you are correctly stating it. certainly it was not a conscious decision!
when you put it like that, and i think of my change in thinking from when i was fit to now - the "value"...
what made you decide to get fat?
yes, i think you are correctly stating it. certainly it was not a conscious decision!
when you put it like that, and i think of my change in thinking from when i was fit to now - the "value"...
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past the point of no return
was pretty surprised on the weekend to find i'd gained 4 pounds in just one week! that was kind of a shock. i've put on over 50 lbs since halloween without even trying, which kind of scares me a l...
past the point of no return
was pretty surprised on the weekend to find i'd gained 4 pounds in just one week! that was kind of a shock. i've put on over 50 lbs since halloween without even trying, which kind of scares me a l...
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how fat is "too fat"?
this has changed for me over time... three or four when i first started to accept putting on weight, anything much over 200 seemed like it would be too much. then when i found myself at 220, it see...
how fat is "too fat"?
this has changed for me over time... three or four when i first started to accept putting on weight, anything much over 200 seemed like it would be too much. then when i found myself at 220, it see...
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anyone switch from feeder to feedee?
that is really great that you are both engaged in this, and that you both are so accepting of your growing bodies.
was this a gradual shift over a long period of time?
anyone switch from feeder to feedee?
that is really great that you are both engaged in this, and that you both are so accepting of your growing bodies.

was this a gradual shift over a long period of time?
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what made you decide to get fat?
this question really made me think : was it a decision? i guess it was, in a way.
i had been fit, thin and active all my life. i went to the gym regularly and lifted weights. but i was an fa an...
what made you decide to get fat?
this question really made me think : was it a decision? i guess it was, in a way.
i had been fit, thin and active all my life. i went to the gym regularly and lifted weights. but i was an fa an...
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muscles going soft
that was kind of my plan a few years ago... take some time off from the gym, have fun, indulge... and then eventually get back into shape.
it turned out i liked the fun & indulgence part a l...
muscles going soft
that was kind of my plan a few years ago... take some time off from the gym, have fun, indulge... and then eventually get back into shape.
it turned out i liked the fun & indulgence part a l...
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anyone else had back issues from standing at 324lbs?
this is great advice - when i stopped exercising and getting fatter, i started to have back issues. my gf at that time convinced me to do some yoga stretching, and it really helped - i think so...
anyone else had back issues from standing at 324lbs?
this is great advice - when i stopped exercising and getting fatter, i started to have back issues. my gf at that time convinced me to do some yoga stretching, and it really helped - i think so...
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muscles going soft
wow... this really resonated with me, and where i am now... and i am kind of surprised how much i like it!
muscles going soft
wow... this really resonated with me, and where i am now... and i am kind of surprised how much i like it!
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how many calories?
here is the one my girlfriend got me to use to track calories consumed and burned:
using that data, you can use this calculator to calculate your projected weight gained or lost over time:
how many calories?
here is the one my girlfriend got me to use to track calories consumed and burned:
using that data, you can use this calculator to calculate your projected weight gained or lost over time:
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past the point of no return
fatrnfatr:
so i checked my calorie log ( i use [url]]www.fatsecret.com[/url) and um i think you're right... which is both exciting and a little frightening!
totally failed to reduce my calo...
past the point of no return
fatrnfatr:
so i checked my calorie log ( i use [url]]www.fatsecret.com[/url) and um i think you're right... which is both exciting and a little frightening!
totally failed to reduce my calo...
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first feeding experience
beautifully written, babe! maybe a couple of details I would have left out, lol... but otherwise great.
first feeding experience
beautifully written, babe! maybe a couple of details I would have left out, lol... but otherwise great.
