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LoraDayton
2 years
Struggling with regular eating
The same as you would for anything else that ADHD makes you forget. Set reminders, make sure you have food ready—I've learned that while I *enjoy* cooking, I really don't do it much because i...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Dissonance between fetish and romantic life
Because you have to have the conversation with them about what the fetish is and it's your responsibility not to project it onto them, which isn't difficult at all.
If you don't know how to ...
If you don't know how to ...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Long distance
What's most important is figuring out what turns you on when it comes to submitting? What gets you into subspace? What about your dom? Go from there.
Here are a few things I have done that hav...
Here are a few things I have done that hav...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain
Miachu,
I don't want to go through the hassle of quoting etc etc so I'll just say a couple of things:
1) I'm sorry your partner is being a fatphobic *** to you; and
2) Relationships don't...
I don't want to go through the hassle of quoting etc etc so I'll just say a couple of things:
1) I'm sorry your partner is being a fatphobic *** to you; and
2) Relationships don't...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Struggling with regular eating
Not everyone has an appetite. There are plenty of people who simply don't enjoy eating or forget to. However it may be worth looking into another cause such as neurodivergence—people with ADHD fo...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Chat problem
There is a thread in the other site upgrades forum where it's acknowledged that the chat application is out of date. A week ago.
Considering they have the nerve to raise the prices but not upgr...
Considering they have the nerve to raise the prices but not upgr...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Chat glitches
I'm annoyed also, but it has not been down for more than a day. It glitched at 10pm PDT at the reset. That is when it went down.
It is however in their best interest to get it up and running...
It is however in their best interest to get it up and running...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Chat glitches
It bugged out entirely at the reset last night. I'd noticed others mentioning the bugs during the week and I didn't have many of them at all, but yesterday it was pretty buggy for me and then right...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Any good/cheap way to get bloated af
it may seem counterintuitive but a bit of food may help. I've had some incredible results when bloating with after after having some rice and steamed broccoli. it wasn't deliberate, I just got into...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Make pm not based on reads but on send messages also for chat
yep, so then I have to go and look up their profile. and 83% of the time there is NO content.
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LoraDayton
2 years
Writing tips - a thread
hear hear for writing fanfic. The majority of conventional media we consume is already fanfiction. If someone wants to write professionally for TV or film, you have to basically write fanfic: be ex...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Make pm not based on reads but on send messages also for chat
I was just thinking this same thing last night. It's really unfair given how the chat constantly shifts the user list that it's SO easy to mis-click and open a chat with someone you didn't want to ...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Random topics to foster body positivity and submissive weight gain
Pretty sure you're describing something that can be a felony in several states.
This isn't "domination" this is abuse, assault, and food tampering.
This isn't "domination" this is abuse, assault, and food tampering.
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LoraDayton
2 years
Random topics to foster body positivity and submissive weight gain
Excuse me, *what*?! You send a random fat person *food* — a person you don't know anything about — because *you* get off on their fatness. That's not "positive" that's just fetishizing and ...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Too fat for feeders but too fit for feeders?
Oh Munchies you know I can go on *all day* about how fatphobic the fat kink community is. You nailed it perfectly!
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LoraDayton
2 years
A feeder trying to pick things back up.
What a way to announce you're willfully cheating on your boyfriend.
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LoraDayton
2 years
Blackmail fantasy?
Oh yes! Diet control in general is very exciting to me, for this reason. Wrapping it up in a blackmail or a "this-or-that" reward makes it even more exciting!
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LoraDayton
2 years
Blackmail fantasy?
Haha I wrote a whole story based on this called Stuffing Season. It's meant to be kinky fun between feedists. One "blackmails" the other into being her feedee for a few months. Not gonna lie it...
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LoraDayton
2 years
Exercise
Hey! To get back to your point:
If you're looking for in-home equipment, you'll likely have to drop big cash for something that can hold your weight. If you're willing to spend about a gran...
If you're looking for in-home equipment, you'll likely have to drop big cash for something that can hold your weight. If you're willing to spend about a gran...
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